I Can Relate

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Registered: 02-29-2004
I Can Relate
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Wed, 12-29-2004 - 3:15pm
In reading over the other posts I find I can relate to so many problems others are having. Not that that makes me feel any better. It doesn't. I too had a father I could never please. My older sister was very much favored by him, but I could never seem to do anything right. All I wanted was a pat on the head and for him to say, "Good job, I am really proud of you" but I never got it. He's gone now and although right to the end I wanted to tell him how he made me feel, I couldn't do it. I too feel unloved and unloveable. I have been married four times and they all ended badly. Why does no one want me? want to stay with me? Want to love me? Am I such a bad person? I don't think I am. I have a lot of love to give, but no one seems to want it. I am afraid I will have to spend the rest of my life without that special partner to love me. I am so lonely.So depressed.

 

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Registered: 04-07-2003
Wed, 12-29-2004 - 6:32pm

Welcome Joanne,


I have learned over the years that before one can have that special someone in their life and have the love that they want, they need to love themselves.

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Registered: 03-08-2004
Wed, 12-29-2004 - 8:49pm
u are worth loving even if i dnt knw u. sorry but i knw some evil people out there and theyre loved..learn about urself before others learn about u...