IS THERE HOPE?
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IS THERE HOPE?
| Mon, 01-03-2005 - 1:21am |
Hey everyone, this is crystin and I talked to one of my boyfriend's friends tonight, not the girl that I have been talking about though, i am no longer going to be friends with her, since I feel that she's the reason she's destroying my relationship, and my friendships with everyone. I feel that she's making her way into my happiness and it's really making me angry, but anyways, here's the news, well I talked to my friend that my boyfriend and I know. Well he was telling me that he is willing to talk to me tomorrow to see if we can work things out, and see what I can possibly do to work things out. He confirmed that my boyfriend has brought up the fact of a ring, so let's cross our fingers and see what happens. I really love my boyfriend and the friend told me to put myself into my boyfriend's shoes to see how he feels and how he's reacting to everything over here. my friend also told me to write out the issues that are bothering me, so we can find solutions to them, or even the answers or plans. My boyfriend's mom and her friend are helping me to write a letter to my boyfriend, explaining to him everything that has been going on here, I either wait until he gets home to give him this letter and have a 50/50 chance of keeping him or losing him, or I tell him now and see how things go. I'm really scared and I dont know what kind of answers I'm going to get. My boyfriend's mom and her friend dont think I should give up because they think that would be buying into this chic's alterior motives or plans. Other people have been telling me that I should walk away and cut my losses before I get hurt, but I honestly feel that there is hope, am i stupid? Whatelse can i do? Do you think that talking to my boyfriend's friend and writing my boyfriend a letter explaining everything will help? I just miss him and the way we used to be and I feel that it's partly because of the bs, people have been putting into my head. Please give me some more advice, any help is going to be helpful.
please keep me in your prayers and thoughts
and wish me luck pleaseeeeeeeeeeee
thanks
crystin
please keep me in your prayers and thoughts
and wish me luck pleaseeeeeeeeeeee
thanks
crystin

Hi Crystin
Only you can know what is the right thing to do and I can see both sides of things.
*hugs