Feeling torn

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Registered: 12-31-2004
Feeling torn
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Mon, 01-03-2005 - 10:35pm

I have a situation that is leaving me confused. I am a widow and I've been coping and living with bipolar II for many years. My mother is disabled and I have been caring for her for several years. She is very negative, even though she is on anti-depressants. Her constant negativity is bringing me way down. I feel drained. I've talked to her about this. Her reaction is anger. Also, she'll say I am negative too. I'm afraid I am negative toward her because I'm so tired of her atitude, and nothing I've tried has helped. I don't work due to medical issues and I don't have a lot of money, so it's hard to get out of the house and into a more positive atmosphere. Coping with my depression is very hard and this situation is adding to it. I would appreciate advise and helpful suggestions.

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Registered: 03-22-2003
In reply to: gemme05
Tue, 01-04-2005 - 8:28am

Hi and Welcome!


I know you dont have alot of money but there are many many things you can do to get some "ME" time.. I think that will really help both you and your Mom.


Can your mom be alone for a little while at least?

*hugs             

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Registered: 03-25-2003
In reply to: gemme05
Tue, 01-04-2005 - 12:44pm

Hi Gemme...first of all, I am sending you a HUGE HUG!

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Registered: 03-25-2003
In reply to: gemme05
Tue, 01-04-2005 - 1:25pm

HI,