DONT KNOW WHAT 2 DO

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Registered: 12-27-2004
DONT KNOW WHAT 2 DO
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Mon, 01-03-2005 - 11:53pm

okay, I was talking with my boyfriend and one of our mutual friends today. The friend told me that my boyfriend has told him that if I stop acting depressing that there is still hope, If i dont change it, it might end, so does that mean that there is still hope between my boyfriend and I? and that he still might want to be with me? Another thing that has me a little disturbed is the fact that I wanted to talk to one of my other "so called friends" but he went to the chic I'm having problems with, and told her that I wanted to talk to him about what was going on, so she called me back sounding very upset. I want to save my relationship and friendships, the one thing that is on my mind the most right now is the relationship that I have with my boyfriend. I feel that a lot of people are feeding him full of bs and I want to confront him about it, but at the same time I dont want to lose him or worry him. Is it good that I write him a letter explaining everything and give it to him when he gets back from overseas or should I talk to him about some of it now? I really dont think he truly undersetands what is making me depressed because I'm really trying with my depression and to make our relationship work. Can anyone help me? with some advice? I have been doing everything that I can to do what needs to be done to work out our relationship and help to fix my life and achieve happiness again. can anyone help me?

please help
thanks
crystin

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Registered: 03-22-2003
Tue, 01-04-2005 - 8:21am

Sweetie


What I see here personally is a long time problem that you need to face.

*hugs