I feel like I'm loosing it.
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I feel like I'm loosing it.
| Wed, 01-05-2005 - 12:58am |
Hello. I have been trying to find a board like this forever it seems. I feel like im loosing it. All I do is cry. I have no ambition to keep the house clean, but most of all I yell at my son, which makes me cry even more. I'm not normally like this, but I don't know where to channel my feelings. Things were going good with us financially up until today. We were served with court papers, saying that a guy we got in a car wreck 2 years ago is suing us because he says he can't work. Well jeez, pretty soon we won't have anything. I feel hopeless right now, and our little one can feel it. I feel like i'm loosing it. I don't know what to do anymore. I've felt like this though for a few months now. Any ideas on what I can do to help ME?
Thanks
Kim
Thanks
Kim

(((Kim))) Welcome and have some cyber hugs.
Have you tried using any anti-depressants? I don't want to make it sound like drugs are the answer, because I don't think that's true. However, the way you said you were always crying reminded me of what I used to do before I started taking anti-depressants. Now I'm not crying all the time. I still bad sometimes, but at least I can still function without crying. You might want to consider it if you haven't yet.
hey,
i hope things work out for you. its hard to grab the bull by the horns and thats the same way you feel when you have a problem relating to court cases and finance and it becomes worse when youre so upset at the same time. have u been down prior to the court case or is it since? u need to find legal advice, im studing law at the moment im not sure how it works in the states, but in england we have an organisation such as citizens advice, perhaps you could try that and see if they can point you in the right direction. also, are you dealing with this on ur own or have u got a partner or husband?
keep in touch and let us knw how it's going
sami
xxxxxx
Hi there,
if the car thing was 2 years ago, he can't sue you anymore. There is a Statute of Limitation of one year. They have to serve you within one year, otherwise it's not valid. Look it up on the internet.
It's hard to deal with financial issues on top of being depressed. I hope you can work something out, and that you have somebody you can talk to.
Hugs Ilka