I need help im confused if i divorce

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Registered: 01-11-2005
I need help im confused if i divorce
Tue, 01-11-2005 - 5:26am
Dear All,
i got married to my hubby one and half year back.He is a great man, really takes cares of me when he IS AROUND, NOW THE PROBLEM IS THAT HE IS HARDLY AROUND.He is in the forces and he never told me prior to getting married that he would be always away.All he told me that he would be away for 2-3 months in a year but now the scene is that bad that i have seen him only for 1 month in past 6 months(and that too in slots).We knew each other for 5 long years before getting married but look at him he never told me anything about his deployment.what shud i do??im totally confused.
In my loneliness i started chatting with my net friend, he knew me even before marriage and i have started feeling for my net friend who is also in love with me and wants to marry me.I haven't met him ever though and we plan to meet soon.he is in The U.S. & Im in India.I don't know if i shud stick with my hubby or divorce him coz he lied to me about his deployment programs.I feel too lonely despite being married.
I would really be greatful if you help me get out of this situation.