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Decision to make
| Sun, 01-23-2005 - 2:06pm |
I know this will sound ticky-tacky compared to what's happening with others, but it's bothering me.
Everyone here knows I've been saving for a trip to Ireland, a lifelong passion.


((((Mary))) I wish I could tell you the right decision. As Deb said it is not a good way to live. I also hate that feeling like you don't have control over your own environment. But it may be the best you can do. A few options:
Do you have lease? If you have some sort of contract. Go over it. It has to included having a toilet to use easily.
If not, offer to buy the part, toilets are pretty easy and you may be able to google a fix it manual. And offer to put the part in yourself. You will simply take the amount off of your rent. Find out how much labor would cost for a handyman and deduct that as well.
If she sees that it will be more worth her while to fix it than to not, she may do it right away.
As far as electricity, you should be given some notice so that you can shut down. Doesn't have to be a lot of notice, 15 minutes should do. But you are doing "work" on your computer and if it crashes at a critical time she could cost you money. Which of course would be deducted from your rent. (Getting the idea). You are a smart lady and time is money.
Just my two cents to my special friend. Vent your concerns n any time. No problem is too little. Depression makes everything seem catastrophic. Having friends to bounce things off of is really important. We are here no matter what.
I love giving a few bits of help. Makes me feel like a useful engine. Thanks for that opportunity.
Sending hugs and good thoughts your way.
Take care,
Lisa-)
Co-CL Depression Support Board
live your dream- don't let ANYTHING stop you. this means so much to you- go to ireland no matter what it takes. maybe you can get a studio apartment? or do some extra work on the side? good luck- and no matter what- don't put that trip off- life is too short.
ireland or bust!!! :)