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| Fri, 01-28-2005 - 11:10am |
Hello Everyone,
It is good to come back and be with you all again, I have been having a computer updated and now I am back on line and wanted to check back in with you. I keep you all in my thoughts everyday. Nothing has really changed for me, things go for bad to worse and you all understand that. My son is still without a job and the financial strain on me is very bad, but I can't let him go without food and heat and electricity. I feel like I am in a fish net and can't get out. My mother is still putting the guilt on me about her having to be placed in a nursing home and makes me feel like I am not a good daughter.
I have to shake myself from time to time and still believe that somewhere one day I will have a time in my life where I can feel good again. In the mean time I am holding on as tight as I can.
God Bless
Linette

Hi ---
I am fairly new here, so I am unfamiliar with the details of your situation. Is your son physically unable to work, or are there just very few jobs available in your area? Could he sign on with a temp service, at least for pocket money?
You can't take care of your mother forever- Help her understand that it is precisely because you ARE a good daughter that you have placed her somewhere where she can get the care she needs. It's because you love her that you want her to be taken care of. That is a difficult decision to make, and you did it because you care for her.
Thanks for replying to my message, my son has a drug and alcohol problem and is in denial that he has this problem and lost his last job because he would not get up and go to work as he should, I am just trying to keep him from going cold and hungry and I am looking out for myself a bit because I don't think I could take him moving back in with me because he is very hard to deal with, you have have to have gone through this to understand and it is my prayer no one should have to go through it but I know millions do.
Just pray that he will see what he is doing to himself most of all, health and safety etc.
Thank you again for talking to me.
Linette
Hey Linette
Welcome back!
*hugs