What wrong with me?

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-25-2004
What wrong with me?
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Sun, 01-30-2005 - 8:55pm

Last Thursday, when I got back from work, I saw my pouch lay unattended outside the house door. Nobody was at home.

I was very angry because I have lent this pouch to one of my housemate and she left it there. She did not return the pouch to me personal, she left it on my table (indicating has return to me). This is not the first time she returns things this way. I did not get angry with her or tell her anything when I saw her.

I told another housemate. “I am angry”. She asks me what wrong. Initially, I say nothing later I told her how irresponsible my lender was.

Why I did not blow my anger at my lender? Because I know, she will buy one and return if it got lost.

But I was very upset about this for about two days.

Thanks for reading this.
Qing.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-08-2004
Mon, 01-31-2005 - 8:29am
I'd be upset too..sure she can buy a new one but people should really respect other people's belongings..its just plain wrong not to in my opinon. neway, hope u feel much better. xxx
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-01-2004
Mon, 01-31-2005 - 9:16am

((((Qing)) Nothing wrong with you. You are a generous person, so you lent out something. Sometimes we continue to have faith in people and then we get burned.

If you can, try not to lend to her anymore. Keep posting and venting to us. We are here to listen!!

Sending hugs and good thoughts your way.
Take care,
Lisa-)

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