my gripe today....

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Registered: 01-09-2005
my gripe today....
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Wed, 02-02-2005 - 11:34am

Today......,hmmmm....

 

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Registered: 04-07-2003
Wed, 02-02-2005 - 1:11pm

I understand that lonely feeling.

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Registered: 01-09-2005
Wed, 02-02-2005 - 8:40pm

As if it could bring me down any more!

 

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Registered: 03-22-2003
Thu, 02-03-2005 - 7:25am

Hi Lea


I know how you feel. Rejection hurts to the core and its soo impossible not to take it personally but you need to try.

*hugs             

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Registered: 01-04-2005
Thu, 02-03-2005 - 10:26am

A lady in my office who hasn't lived here very long has met local people through www.friendster.com. You might give that a try.

It's harder making friends as an adult - I'm not sure why. I've never been good at introducing myself to people. That's one of those skills I had to learn, and it's a little scary! But I get better at it every time, and I'm not so scared to walk into a room full of people I don't know. I agree with Caly - see if there's a group or a class or something that interests you, and just go. Step out of that comfort zone.

Consider this, too - some of us would give ANYthing to be able to go somewhere ALONE! I love spending time with my husband but fercryinoutloud, once in awhile I'd like to just GO somewhere by myself and take my time and do whatever I please. Just about the only time I get to spend alone is in the car between Point A and Point B.