Hello....New member here

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Registered: 02-11-2005
Hello....New member here
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Fri, 02-11-2005 - 1:38am

Hello Everyone,

I'm new to this board so I thought I'd introduce myself. I'm a married mother of six who works full time as a nurse. I've struggled with depression and PST for years now. I've just recently been able to admit to myself that I need help and the support of others, so I can use all the prayers/good wishes you guys have right now. I hope to get to know everyone here and maybe trade a few "war stories". Sometimes I feel like I'm the only person in the world going through this, although the nurse in me knows that just isn't true.... Thanks for all comments/input. It's much appreciated.

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Registered: 03-22-2003
Fri, 02-11-2005 - 6:49am

6 kids and you work full time?

*hugs             

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Registered: 01-27-2004
Fri, 02-11-2005 - 9:01am

Welcome (what's your name, so we know what to call you?)!

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Registered: 02-10-2005
Fri, 02-11-2005 - 9:30am
Hi there - I'm new too, but since it helped me so much to post a reply to someone yesterday, thought I'd give it a try today too. I guess encouraging others must be a mood booster for me. Anyway, I'm sending you prayers for strength. It sounds like you have built a life that gives and gives and gives to others. Me, I'm on the total opposite end of the spectrum, no kids (although I wish that wasn't the case), in a job that is pretty isolated all day. I really admire you for spreading the love like I bet you do. -Susan
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Registered: 02-11-2005
Fri, 02-11-2005 - 8:22pm
OOPS!! Sorry guys... My name is Jenny and yep I have six kids. I also have a wonderful hubby(Most days;)) who helps me juggle the load.
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Registered: 04-02-2004
Fri, 02-11-2005 - 11:27pm
Welcome Jenny!
I too am new here, I have posted a little. Growing up as one of six kids I totally respect that you are also able to be a full time nurse. I only have 2 girls of my own, and I go to school and my life is hectic! I too am in the early stages of getting help and hopefully an actual diagnosis, something that should have been done years ago. All of my experiences here have been wonderful, I found the Wednesday night chat to be inspiring! Good luck to you and best wishes!
-Rachel
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Registered: 05-13-2003
Sat, 02-12-2005 - 5:49pm

Welcome, Jenny

My husband and I are thinking of adopting and I am worried I will not have the energy to handle one kid, let alone six!!! God bless you, not many people could do what you do.
I suspect your job also makes you stressed. You are in a very hard profession!

I hope you continue to post while I watch you cope with life with admiration and amazement.

I was wondering if you have any alone time? Could you have your husband watch the kids for a little while each day and meditate or journal or read? I bet that would help.

Hugs.

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Registered: 02-11-2005
Sun, 02-13-2005 - 9:45am
Hi Jenny. You are one busy woman! I am also a full-time nurse. My name is Donna. I have had depression issues in the past. They come and go, but I have never had to go on meds because of it. I have been able to get myself out of it. My problems all come down to one thing....men! The first time I was depressed, it lasted for about a month. My brother found his 44 year old fiancee dead. That was awful. I couldn't even cope with going back to work. My first day back I was crying. But finally I got past that. The rest of my depressive episodes all revolved around men. Especially when I start talking to a guy online and then we meet and then I never hear from him again. I feel so rejected. All I can do is cry. But eventually I get past it and move on. I am lucky in that way. I love trying to help people on these boards with encouraging words or anything I can say to help them. I am glad you have a wonderful husband to support you.I look forward to reading more of your posts. Best wishes, Jenny. Take care.