Remember Me?

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Registered: 11-28-2003
Remember Me?
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Mon, 09-14-2009 - 1:16am

Hi all.  stopping by to say hi.  For those that don't know me, I'm Becky, mom to a 4 yr old, and married to my dh since May 03.  I was Dx'd with depression 2 years ago.  I used to be pretty active here, but life has gotten in the way...some for the good, and some not.  Lately, more Not.


Last year, I had a gREAT year...it was a wonderful school year and I had a blast with my coworker in the new grade level.  However, due to the CA budget issues, my coworker got pink slipped, and I got moved to yet another grade level.  7th grade.  The job isn't bad, but it's taking a great toll on me emotionally.  Things at home lately haven't been good either...muc of it, I believe, because dh and I are so tired, others because life is getting in the way.  For example, tonight, DH got TICKED at me because HE walked through the screen door to our back patio...I closed it after walking in behind him.  He admittedly said he was paying more attention to the football game than to the door, but it was my fault...after all, I "do nothing else, why would I close the door, much less lock it?"  I am at my wits end with this man.  I love him to death, but I'm tired of his taking his frustrations out on me.  Help!

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In reply to: tiggrtch
Mon, 09-14-2009 - 12:53pm
Welcome back, Becky! I remember you! I know what you mean by life getting in the way, which in turn means you are neglecting your relationship. When this happens to us, we try to ask for a date night, at home, after DD goes to bed. Just sitting out on the porch helps so much!


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Registered: 11-28-2003
In reply to: tiggrtch
Tue, 09-15-2009 - 12:31am

Hi, and thanks!

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