Situation with DD
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| Sun, 12-06-2009 - 11:32pm |
Well, I am very confused. I've shared with you all about the disagreements that youngest DD (21 y/o) and i had over Thanksgiving. She hadn't spoken with me except to say she didn't want to talk to me in two weeks. She did call yesterday while I was at work and she knew I couldn't talk. I did answer my cell phone when I saw it was here. Usually, I ignore it at work. She sounded so bubbly and happy. I told her I would call her when I got off work. I have apologized for my part in this and I know my DD doesn't see that she's done anything so she won't apologize. I'm ok with that - I just want my DD back in my life.
Anyway, when I called her back, she was again bubbly and happy. We talked for maybe 1 minute and then she invited me to a jewelry party (like a Tupperware party). I said I would do my best to be off work that day. She said great and then she said she had to go. The whole conversation took a total of two minutes. I truly think she only called just because she wants me to come to her jewelry party and spend money.
Why do I have to be suspicious? Why can't I just be happy that the ice is broken and maybe things will get better soon? I really want this thing resolved.
Thanks for listening. DD and I both could use a few prayers.

Oh my heavens, DD is sending you mixed messages, isn't she?
And I am really short on time as have to get ready for work as have time clock in less than 60 minutes.
Have a chuckle, I actually looked up several interpretations of Matt 5:39b this morning about turning your other cheek as my therapist thought I hadn't done that with my own 2 sisters over the year.
It isn't fair how your DD treated you, but maybe just show up for the party, IF you want to buy something, do; if you don't, then don't.
This is only my observation, but take it for what it's worth.
I'm just confused - is she speaking to me or not?