Lotus for a boy?????

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Lotus for a boy?????
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Thu, 05-17-2007 - 8:01am
I just found out on Mother's day that I am pregnant for the third time. The baby naming bug has already bitten my husband and myself. If we have a girl we already know that she will be named Caris. (It's a combo of my mom Carolyn who passed away and his mom Doloris.) For a boy my husband suggested Lotus. We both like the name but also know that it is typically used for girls. And yes, we know it means flower. On the other hand it is also the name of a sports car. Does anyone have any thoughts on this? We already have a boy and a girl, Justin and Marley.

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Registered: 08-26-2006
Thu, 05-17-2007 - 8:30am

I won't do it.

What about:
Abbott
Asher
Skylar
Beckett
Thomas
Quentin

Good luck,
Brooke

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Thu, 05-17-2007 - 10:39am
I love Caris - but don't care for Lotus.
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Thu, 05-17-2007 - 11:40am

I think I'd go with a different sports car...my husband suggests the Maclaren, since it's about as expensive. *wink* Really, the lotus flower image is just so much stronger and there will probably be lotus flowers longer than there will be Lotus cars...so I'd skip.

But Caris is GREAT!

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Thu, 05-17-2007 - 11:44am

What a wonderful Mother's Day present. Congratulations!

If your other kids were named Orion and Phoenix, I'd say go for it. With Justin and Marley, however, I think Lotus would be assumed to be a girl. Plus, to someone like me who knows nothing about cars, Lotus has an exclusively Eastern religion/Buddhist vibe to it that clashes with the more traditional Justin and Marley. I wouldn't use it.

Perhaps you'd like Lennox instead? I think Sawyer, Wyatt, Grant, Luke, and Dawson would also work.


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Thu, 05-17-2007 - 12:29pm
no, I could definitely not see using that for a boy, sorry
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Thu, 05-17-2007 - 12:34pm
I think it is too feminine for a boy and doesn't really match the names you already have.

 

 

  

 

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Thu, 05-17-2007 - 12:44pm

I am usually one advocating for boys to be named great names even if it means that they're occasionally mistaken for a girl (personal beliefs about gender issues--why is okay for a girl to be mistaken for a boy, but not okay for a boy to be mistaken for a girl?), but I really think Lotus is a bad idea for a boy. I think he will be teased A LOT for that one, and I think he will be mistaken for a girl (on paper) something like 100% of the time. I'm actually a bit surprised that your dh likes this name--usually men are the ones saying "the other boys will tease him for that."

I thought the car name thing was fun though. I don't know if you want the car association particularly, or if you just thought the connection made the name Lotus more masculine, but I was intrigued so I looked up some car names and thought some of them might make cool names for kids, boys or girls. (Keep in mind that I know nothing about car brands, so some of these may be dorky or be the names of crappy lemon cars or snotty rich folk cars--and, some of them may be a little out there for kid names, depending on your tastes.) Enjoy!


Boys:

Aries
Austin
Bentley
Blazer
Boxter
Bricklin
Bristol
Brougham
Carlton (Vauxhall)
Cirrus
Colt
Cooper
Dasher
Dino
Dusty/Duster (Duster)
Eagle
Edsel (Ford)
Falcon
Fiero
Fleetwood
Forester
Fox
Fuego
Hunter (Chrysler)
Jimmy
Lancer
Marlin
Marquis
Maverick
Max (Maxima)
Odysseus (Odyssey)
Orion (Ford)
Pacer
Pallas (Citroene)
Phaeton
Phoenix
Pilot
Ram
Rambler
Rebel
Reliant
Rocky (Daihatsu)
Romeo (Alfa Romeo)
Santana (VW)
Talbot
Talon
Titan (Mazda)
Tiburon
Tracer
Trooper
Victor (Vauxhall)

Girls:

Athena (Citroene)
Astra (Vauxhall)
Aurora
Baja
Breeze
Carina
Carmen (Karmann Ghia)
Carol (Mazda)
Catalina
Catera
Cayenne
Celeste (Colt)
Cherry (Datsun)
Cheyenne
Ciera
Cressida (VW/Toyota?)
Diamante
Electra
Firenza
Giulia/Giulietta (Alfa Romeo)
Jazz (Honda)
Lark or Sky (Skylark)
Nova (Vauxhall)
Opal (Opel)
Sable
Savana
Sephia
Sequoia
Shelby (AC, Shelby Cobra)
Sienna
Sierra (Ford)
Stanza (Datsun)
Sunny (Datsun)
Topaz
Violet (Datsun)
Viva (Vauxhall)

Either:

Allegro/a (Austin)
Ami (Citroene)
Arrow
Aspen
Axiom
Azure (Bentley)
Dakota
Dart
Echo
Elan (Lotus)
Justy
Legend
Liberty
Montana
Oasis
Prairie (Datsun or Nissan, Prairie Joy)
Quest
Rally
Shadow
Silver (Rolls, Silver Spur/Spirit/Wraithe)
Storm
Tahoe
Zephyr

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Thu, 05-17-2007 - 12:54pm

I wouldn't use it for a boy or girl because of the car and the software by that name.

It also has a strong Eastern religious association, so I wouldn't use it unless it makes sense for you culturally.

AJ, enjoying life with C.

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Registered: 01-15-2007
Thu, 05-17-2007 - 12:57pm

I love Caris -- so beautiful and the name obviously means so much to the both of you. Good choice!

Lotus, however, reminds me of the flower and computer program. I can't see it as a boy's name.

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Registered: 09-29-2005
Thu, 05-17-2007 - 2:32pm

Besides the floral and Eastern religion associations already mentioned, many will also immediately associate this with the Lotus sexual position (basically the same as the Lotus Yoga position, with receiving partner on top). I remember a while back, someone mentioned this as a possible girl name, and a majority of the comments reflected this sexual reference, so I assume it's a fairly familiar one. Just something to keep in mind.


I also agree with some of the others that your other children's names definitely set the tone, so while I could see Lotus with sibs Phoenix and Orion, it seem quite out of place with Justin and Marley. To be quite honest, it seems a great deal more feminine than unisex Marley ... again, not that it will concern you, personally, but something else to consider.


Is it the sound you like? If so, perhaps something like Ludis, Lucas, Augustus, Quintus, Titus


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