I would tell him today. I wouldn't make a big deal out of it or make it sound like you've been keeping it a secret though. You might just want to tell him that you weren't sure if he was aware of the history of that name but that you still love it and want to use it.
He's going to find out one way or another.
(On a side not have you thought at all about making it the middle name instead?)
Yes, you should. I agree with the other responses. Would you mind telling us the name? Just curious! Maybe we could help think of something similar or with the same
this definitely needs to be discussed with the husband
I agree somewhat with the poster who believes you would always associate that name with the child that was lost
I think you ought to throw some other names in the pot and see what you can come up with - if in the end, there is nothing else that comes close to how much you like this name, then make a decision, with your husband's knowlege
YES!!!
Amber
wife to Danel
I would tell him today. I wouldn't make a big deal out of it or make it sound like you've been keeping it a secret though. You might just want to tell him that you weren't sure if he was aware of the history of that name but that you still love it and want to use it.
He's going to find out one way or another.
(On a side not have you thought at all about making it the middle name instead?)
Oh, that is just so sad.
TELL!
IMO
mom to Elijah, Paul, Isaiah, Josh, and Angel
if i were in ur shoes, yes definitly tell him. and try try try not to be mad if he wishes to no longer use that name.
good luck
Would you mind telling us the name? Just curious! Maybe we could help think of something similar or with the same
I appreciate the insight and opinions all of your have provided.
this definitely needs to be discussed with the husband
I agree somewhat with the poster who believes you would always associate that name with the child that was lost
I think you ought to throw some other names in the pot and see what you can come up with - if in the end, there is nothing else that comes close to how much you like this name, then make a decision, with your husband's knowlege