Grace would have been my #1 choice, though I do like Aisling very much, too. (Even in the States, I would probably use the Aisling spelling, but I can certainly understand wanting to avoid the constant corrections of mispronunciations!!) I couldn't vote for Gracie, though; it's just too nicknamey for me.
I chose Gracie. I don't care for Ashlynn at all, but also with this spelling, it will almost guarantee that she will have to correct the spelling/pronounciation of her name for most of her life.
I have to say I love the spelling Aislinn, but do worry about the mispronounciation. I think its just something to consider, but it wouldn't change whether or not I would use the name.
I love Aisling (Aislinn is fine too), but I don't like the spelling Ashlynn. (I wasn't clear which spelling you were actually considering.)
Gracie is too nickname-y for me.
I have to say I love the spelling Aislinn, but do worry about the mispronounciation. I think its just something to consider, but it wouldn't change whether or not I would use the name.
HTH!!
Gracie is a nickname, not a full name. Aislinn easily got my vote.
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