Lurker looking for support...

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Fri, 08-29-2003 - 11:56am
Hi everyone! I'm fairly new to the boards although I've posted on a few others. I've finally decided that I need to get myself in gear and lose some of these extra pounds that have been creeping up on me the past few years. I need help! Actually, I need someone to kick me in the butt and get me going!

My story ... I've always been fighting the weight battle. About eight years ago, after two bad bouts of food poisoning, and a really horrific breakup with my 10 year SO, I lost over 60 pounds and was able to maintain my weight for several years. However, I met my DH five years ago and at the same time relocated out of state away from my family for a career opportunity. At that time I started slacking off of my exercise routine and began returning to some of my old bad eating habits (DH can eat anything and never gain weight!). The pounds started slowly adding up...

Two years ago I gave birth to my DS, and to my astonishment, I was able to lose "most" of my pregnancy weight and was back to my pre-pregancy weight within a few months after his birth... but still more than my goal weight. Now, the weight is starting to creep up again...

Running after a 2YO keeps me active, but I can never seem to find the time to really work out any more (excuses, excuses...). I've taken weight management classes which have really helped as I am not a big fan of diet fads, I am able to eat healthy during the day for the most part, but the night time binges are what is defeating me. I know that it is mostly habit, but like I said, I need a swift kick in the butt to get me in line! LOL!

I hope I can find the support and motivation here to get me started and keep me going. Sorry for rambling on and on... I look forward to getting to know everyone.

Andrea (42, 2YO DS, 40 pound weight loss goal)

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Fri, 08-29-2003 - 12:14pm
Glad to meet you, Andrea. You've come to the right place. You'll find lots of supoprt, encouragement and friendship here.

Wow, a 2 year old son? Maybe there's hope for me yet! LOL

~cindy/ 36 yo, married-17 yrs, no kids, lost 45lbs, 17 to go!


Edited 8/29/2003 2:15:15 PM ET by unchained777

 

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Fri, 08-29-2003 - 12:15pm
Hi Andrea, and welcome!

This is a great board, and the ladies here are wonderfully supportive!!

My name is Dawn, 32, from Southern California. I am hoping to lose 20-30 pounds, but for now I would be happy with 20.

Stick around, get to know us!! And us you!!

Hugs,

-Dawn

188/170/150

~Dawn


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Fri, 08-29-2003 - 12:24pm
Hi and welcome, Andrea!

It really seems like running after a little one ought to burn off the pounds, doesn't it? I remember when mine were that young, and I couldn't figure out how I could spend my whole day running, bending, and lifting, and STILL need to exercise on top of it!

I'm glad you de-lurked! I think you'll find plenty of support here, and we always like making a new buddy. Just jump right in and start posting!

:o) - Karen (43, 2 DD's, trying to lose about 50 lbs.)


 


 


 


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Registered: 03-25-2003
Fri, 08-29-2003 - 12:50pm
Hi Andrea,

Come on out, glad you decided to post!

Carrollee

45/CA

207/140's/105-110 - got to remember to buy batteries for the scale

 

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Fri, 08-29-2003 - 1:53pm
Hi Andrea. You have come to the right place for support and encouragement! The ladies here are wonderful. Welcome again!

becky

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Fri, 08-29-2003 - 3:10pm
Welcome, Andrea! I have a son who is getting ready to turn 1 and I know how hard it is to find the time and motivation to exercise! After he's in bed, I just want to crash on the couch!

Glad to have you here--this is a great board. :)

Anne

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Fri, 08-29-2003 - 7:28pm
A big, warm welcome to you, Andrea! You've found the BEST circle of buddies anywhere (I'd put money on it), and we are able to provide whatever kind of support you need! Some of us even take a bit of pleasure in laying on butt-kickin'!LOL;)

Well, it sounds like you know exactly what works for you, and now is just to do it. No, you don't need excuses. You DO need to question yourself on your choices (nighttime, especially). Ask yourself something like 'Do I want to eat this -insert food item here- more, or lose weight more?'. I guarantee that if you keep your choices this conscious, you'll find the success you're looking for. And get exercising! Schedule it in, wherever it fits, and follow through whether you want to or not. Do NOT let yourself off the hook or give yourself any excuses not to do what you really want to do!!

I don't know if this qualifies as a butt-kicking, but I hope you stick around and become part of our circle (sounds like we could learn a bunch from you, too!),

Hugs and best wishes in attaining your goal,

Roni :o)

cl-ivroni_e, Dieting Buddies Community Leader (35, mom of 9yo DD, Alberta...40 pounds to lose)

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Sat, 08-30-2003 - 7:41am
WELCOME you will find lots of support here and friends.
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Sat, 08-30-2003 - 7:42am
CINDY I AM thinking I just read you are wondering if there is hope for you to have a BABY??!WOOOOOOOOOOOHOOOOOOOOOOO wait till Pam hears this!!!!Please tell me I am right?!
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Sun, 08-31-2003 - 10:35pm
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA I should have been more specific ... that would be someone ELSE'S hope, not mine!! LOL Nope, not me. I like my life just the way it is. ;-)

~cindy