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| Thu, 01-29-2004 - 9:25pm |
just for future knowledge.. the weekend before i stoped eating i miscarried due to being hit in the stomach by the babys father. i just wanted to post this here because of the fact i do not want people to think i am harming an innocent life anymore. while pregnant i ate and kept it down the best of my ability. it was after my boyfriend hit me that i lost the baby. i just wanted to post this so all would know i did my best to stop throwing up and to save an innocent life. if this seems snappy i am truely sorry i just wanted to let it out for future knowledge so i didnt cry everytime i read something in here
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Lots of love
Lisa aka Ally xxx
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Sarah
I am so sorry you lost your baby. I have never been pregnant so I can't imagine what you are going through. All I know is that it must be very, very painful. I also imagine that ED is really acting up for you right now since that's how we deal with life. Please, please leave your bf - first and foremost. Nobody deserves to be hit, baby or not. I was in an abusive relationship and the best thing I ever did for myself is get out of it. Next I hope you will find a good support group, not only for ED, but for the loss of your baby. Recovery is possible, Sweetie, but the thing is nobody can do it for you. Make the first step, reach out for help, and don't do it alone. We are all here for you, but you need more than an online group.
Please keep posting and let us know how you are doing.
Love & hugs, Kristina
The opinions I have expressed here are from my own experience and are not intended as medical advice or to take the place of your own physician's advice.
Love & hugs, Kristina
im sorry to hear about your situation, i dont know how you must be feeling but i hope youve dumped the babys father, tell him to **** off. well done on keeping down most of your food while you were pregnant; must have been tough. You must be strong to be able to do that, though ive never been pregnant, i dont know if i could do that. am very envious of your will power. maybe you could keep it going now? you have the determination, you just need the motivation; prove someone wrong, prove to yourself that you can do anything if you set yuor mind to it.
Dont know whether this helps you much, but ill help as often as i can, ill try to help, should i say.
stay srong, you are NOT alone, i thought i was until i came on here.
lauren x x
Oh honey,
Please think of yourself and leave that man. My EX-husband (I'll call him "C") is my ex for that reason.
The hitting doesn't stop forever.... it gets worse.