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Registered: 08-22-2006
help
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Tue, 08-22-2006 - 3:09am
this is actually the first time i post something. but i have a concern and i would like someone to help me out.. please... my little sister is 13 yrs old and i worry because she recently lost a lot of weight shes really skinny now. she hardly eats. when i offer her something she says 'thats to fattening'. she doesnt want to wear certain clothes because she thinks it makes her look fat. when i was her age i never worried about stuff like that. i know only a doctor can give a diagnosis but does this sound like an eating disorder???
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Registered: 09-06-2005
In reply to: lorenarenteria
Tue, 08-22-2006 - 9:16am

Hi there,

 

 

~Diana~

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Registered: 11-16-2001
In reply to: lorenarenteria
Fri, 08-25-2006 - 12:03am

Hi Lorenaenteria,


Have you talked about your concerns with your parents?


I agree with Diana, gently let her know through different ways, that you are there for her and that she can go to you if she has a problem or a preoccupation. Remind her that you love her, and also remind her of the good things about her.


But please also don't keep this to yourself either, because it's a huge preoccupation to have. Please do also reach out and talk to someone else about this because you also need support - your parents, a family member. You can also come here!


All my best,


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Registered: 09-06-2005
In reply to: lorenarenteria
Fri, 08-25-2006 - 10:26am

Poppy brought up something I neglected:

 

 

~Diana~