QOTW - "Real" life -- where are you?
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QOTW - "Real" life -- where are you?
| Fri, 09-08-2006 - 12:12pm |
This can be our QOTW -- or weekend, or into next week ...
Where are you in real life? School life, home life, work life, family life, personal life or "other"? Oh! And how could I forget - love life (I don't have one LOL)? What are the challenges that face you today? Besides food and weight ;o)
Regulars, newbies, lurkers welcome :)

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~Diana~
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~Diana~
I am currently in an emotional tug a war with a guy named Joe who doesn't know what he wants. I am also working as much as possible and I am about to start classes in 11 days. I am attempting to study for the LSAT which I plan to take in December.
Edited 9/12/2006 8:55 pm ET by creativeone23
Hi again --
Try to take a step back from Joe & take an impartial look at the relationship.
~Diana~
Thanks for the advice. I am trying to be impartial but it is really hard especially since I am falling really hard for Joe. I don't even know how he feels about us. Does he want to just friends or does he want to attempt to make our relationship work on a more personal level? I never knew it was going to be so difficult to work in a restaurant while suffering from an eating disorder. It turns out Chris and I are okay after all or atleast that is the way he is making it come across. I am sick and tired of not knowing whether I am coming or going. Sherry the one who trained me informed me Chris is proned to moodswings so the best you can do is bite your tongue and just adapt to however he wants things done when he wants them done. Little does she know that is a lot to ask for out of someone as outspoken as I. You are right between school, work and studying for the LSAT I haven't had a lot of time for self reflection. I am hoping to finish the last two chapters in my book LSAT practice book and still have time to try and figure out where Joe and I stand even if it is just as friends.
Hi there, sorry I did not see this sooner!
~Diana~
Hi there,
I don't know how long you've known him, but try to get to know him a bit more, invite him to join you when you and your friends are going out or hanging out, etc. Generally, when someone does like us and is interested in being more than friends, they make time to be with us and seek us out. Does he call you to talk? Does he share his thoughts and feelings with you or are your conversations all neutral? Does he ask you out? Or do you have to do the asking out?
Good luck with the LSAT and with your boss!
Krissy
Edited 9/18/2006 12:08 am ET by creativeone23
I was just hit head on with a challenge...I posted last week and could I open up my computer and see if anyone out there responded to my e-mail. I feel so alone in my struggles..not a lot of support or groups here in the area.
How do you hold a 55-hour job, relationship...everything else ...yet spend so much other time thinking about how to end the struggle.
My challenge is to become so small that no one can reach out and hurt me anymore.
Shirley
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