Discovered new husband purging...Need He

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Discovered new husband purging...Need He
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Sat, 03-24-2007 - 10:01am
I do not know if I am in the right place, but I need advice . I married my husband December 30 2007. He is 47 and I am 45. I suspected he was purging before we married, but really knew a few days after our wedding. He eats a normal sized meal, but would purge every night. We were apart for 3 weeks, but he has began the purging again. I confronted him when I first found out, and he swore it would never happen again. However, he has since, the last time beig WED of last week, when I confronted him again. We have some other serious issues we are dealing with, as well. I am very upset about the purging, feel I cannot trust him, feel discusted and confused. He says he will stop but can he without help? Please help me, I am at the end of my rope. How do I help him? He is afraid of getting fat, but is a 34 waist. He has been doing this over 10 years. What are the health risks? Everynight and day he has severe heartburn and eats tums constantly. He has diarehea everyday, stomach pain, frequent muscle cramps, and has recently complained of feelinf like his food is getting stuck when he swallows. Please help me!
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Registered: 09-06-2005
Tue, 03-27-2007 - 12:56pm

Hi there elsaverenda and welcome to the board.


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