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| Tue, 06-12-2007 - 6:54pm |
I just watched a show that had a couple that was going to get married but the women had an eating disorder and her boyfriend was not willing to marry her unless she got better. She was eating better and had gained weight, but was having a day to day struggle still with her self image and negative thoughts. It was too much for him and he wasn not willing to be with her anymore unless she stopped. Now I'm freaked out. I've got those problems and I went on the Dr. Phil site to see what people had to say and it was all bad. They hate this girl for feeling the way she does and find it insulting and even one husband said that if he knew his wife had an eating disorder she never would ahve married her and another womens husband left her because of it. All I can think is this is going to be me. I'm having a very hard time right now I would have a brake down if I knew my boyfriend was going to leave me because of this. I've been crying sice I saw the show. I don't know what to do. I don't know if I need help. I feel like I'm broken and this make everything seem so much worse. I'm scared to go to councling becasue I'm very fraid of confrontation and very one I talk to about my problems seem to think it's all in my head and I'm making it out to be more than it is. I don't know what to do.

very gentle hugs to you (((((em87b)))))
I know several women that have eating disorders who are married and have adoring husbands.
~Diana~
Hi again (((em87b)))
I just read the transcript from today's show.
~Diana~
It is wonderful to hear that you were able to talk to your mother and aunt.
It would be
~Diana~
Hi there (((((lovetheburn))))) and a warm welcome to
~Diana~
I read "living with inlaws" and my jaw dropped.
~Diana~