Had it up to "here" w/RE's office

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Tue, 10-06-2009 - 4:36pm

So we have had our new donor confirmed for

 


Amber



Mason James was born 8/21/10, 8lbs 12 oz after close to 3 years of infertility.

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Tue, 10-06-2009 - 5:09pm

That just sucks Amber, I'm sorry.

Isabel
Mom to Sebastian Robert after 3+ years of infertility

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Tue, 10-06-2009 - 5:33pm

So sorry to hear this, Amber. I HATE not being informed and I HATE it when people don't communicate properly. If I were you, not only would I talk to the doctor, but I'd tell the nurse and the coordinator what your expectations are. YOU are the customer and YOU are the one paying THEM. So regardless if they have any informaiton or not, if you leave them a message, they owe you a call back.


Have you ever asked them if they have email? I know that my nurses always respond really quickly via email. Maybe try that route and see if things get better?

~Kate

TTC May, 2007Initial Diagnosis: MFI4 IUI's w/ Clomid- all BFNIVF #1 June- Lupron protocol. 9 eggs, 6 mature, 4 fertilized, 3 day transfer, 1 x 7 cell grade A= BFNDiagnosis: bad eggsIVF #2 September- Antagon protocol. 6 eggs, 5 mature, 4 fertilized, 3 day transfer, 2 x 8 cell perfect embies, 1 x 5 cell slow-poke.Result: POSITIVE beta on 10/6- 43.7Beta #2 on 10/8: 139, Beta # 3 on 10/10: 382u/s #1 on 10/17: 1 sac measuring 5w3dM/C on 10/24Next up: seeking 2nd opinion of doc who specializes in diagnosis and m/c. Diagnosis: Low ovarian reserve and problem w/ Sperm DNA (DFI)DH on high doses of Antioxidants to help w/ DFI. Results went from 30.7% down to 17.2%! YIPPEEE!!IVF #3 February, 2009- Retrieval 2/22/09-5 eggs2/23/09- Fert report. Only 1 mature egg out of the 5. It did fertilize normally2/25/09- ET- Transfered one perfect 8 cell embie. STICK BABY STICK!!3/7/09- AF Arrived. BFNMay, 2009- IVF #45/14/09- Retrieval of 16 eggs, 9 mature, 7 fertilized5/17/09- Transfer of 4 embies- one 8 cell grade A, one 7 cell grade A, two 6 cell grade B5/29/09- BFP! HCG: 121. 6/1/09 HCG: 407. 6/3/09: HCG 984. 6/5/09: HCG 20536/8/09- early u/s showing gestational sac- no yolk. HCG only rose to 3,698. Not a good sign6/10/09- more u/s and bw6/16/09- no yolk sac- m/c D&CNEXT UP: DE w/ my sister as the donor. Lupron to begin on 8/25/09. Stims started on 9/7/09

~Kate


6-time IVF Survivor


2 m/c's


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Tue, 10-06-2009 - 5:40pm
I know- it is so frustrating.

 


Amber



Mason James was born 8/21/10, 8lbs 12 oz after close to 3 years of infertility.
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Tue, 10-06-2009 - 5:42pm
I did email last week and didn't get a response from that so I left a message yesterday.

 


Amber



Mason James was born 8/21/10, 8lbs 12 oz after close to 3 years of infertility.
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Tue, 10-06-2009 - 7:23pm

Good luck tomorrow with Mom.

Isabel
Mom to Sebastian Robert after 3+ years of infertility

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Tue, 10-06-2009 - 7:31pm

That truly sucks Amber.

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Tue, 10-06-2009 - 8:45pm

((((hugs)))))


What worries me is if they're so non-responsive now, what happens when you need guidance during your cycle?

 


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Tue, 10-06-2009 - 8:59pm

I am so sorry they are being that way with you.

jhscalis@wisc.edu

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Tue, 10-06-2009 - 9:02pm
Spencer, they have always been great during my cycles (I have done 6 with them), always returns calls that day.

 


Amber



Mason James was born 8/21/10, 8lbs 12 oz after close to 3 years of infertility.
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Tue, 10-06-2009 - 10:37pm
I think that's a good plan.

 


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