I don't have any good answers for your questions here - but I just wanted to let you know what a wonderful thing you are thinking of doing. I know so many people who have benefited from the kindness & unbelievable generosity of strangers through embryo, egg or sperm donation. We are so incredibly grateful to our sperm donor for giving us the chance to have a child. Though he was an anonymous donor - I think of him fondly and with gratitude all the time.
Thank you for your generous spirit - hopefully you will find a good way to donate and provide a miracle to someone!
Me (34) DH (32) TTC #1 since 2007
TTC naturally/ timed BD 2007-2009 July 2009 SA #1 zero count
July 2009-March 2010 more tests for DH
June 9 & 10, 2010- First & Second IUIs with Donor Sperm (Clomid, Estrogen, HCG) BFP!!!
June 26th, 2010 - Beta #1 : 531
July 12th, 2010 - U/S : HB 127
In my research I found that 90% of the programs out there charged almost as much to the couple as doing donor egg.
First and foremost, please PLEASE make sure that whatever group you use, they do not charge large amounts of $$ to the receiving couple.
I think it's awesome that you would do this!
I don't know the process for donating your blasts, but I do know that when we signed all of our paperwork before doing our cycle, there were places to specify what we wanted to do w/ any leftover embryos.