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| Tue, 03-20-2007 - 1:45pm |
I don't know where to start. My sister just had some test done and they found several lumps and lots of fluid. I don't know how to support her in this . We have never been very close. I don't know how to help her. Part of me just wants to stand back. I have never been a selfish person but I don't think I am emotionaly strong enough to help her. I need some advice please. annaj

First of all, I'm sorry to hear about your sister. My thoughts & prayers go out to your family and you.
My aunt was diagnosed with Stage II ovarian cancer late last year. It was such a shock to all of us because she had always been so strong. Like you, I didn't know how to react and how I would deal with her going through so much internal and emotional pain.
But you know what, 3mos later, we're all doing well - esp my aunt. You deal with the pain amongst yourselves (I never let my aunt see me cry) and try to be strong for your sick loved one. Be sensitive to their pain and mood swings. I tried to visit my aunt alot more and called her daily. I also brought food that I thought she'd like.
I think what's helped my aunt is just knowing that we are around and that she's not in it alone.
Hope this helps a bit.
Hi and welcome to the board.
I am sorry about your sister.
Welcome and thank you for dropping and helping out.
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