How can I support my friend?
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How can I support my friend?
| Wed, 08-20-2008 - 5:58pm |
My dear friend has been diagnosed with stage 1V Ovarian Cancer that has already spread throughout her body. She has a colostomy bag, and starts Chemo in a few weeks. The doctors told her she has one year to live. I'm not sure how else to support her emotionally.Except to tell her I love her, and be there when I can for physical support. I am at a loss on what to say, I told her I don't accept the one year deadline and instigate plans for visiting..she lives 2 hours away. I am so confused myself and devastated over her diagnosis. I know I need to get a grip over my own emotions. When I talk to her on the phone I just fight bursting into tears. I have always been strong, but with this I am devastated. How do I help her through this? What words can I say that would uplift her?
Thank you for any advice!
Thank you for any advice!

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I am so sorry about your friend.
I appreciate your advice! This I can do! I will focus on bringing new things into her life, keeping a good distraction, and it does show I am constantly thinking about her. Focus on living! Thank you for your support, I appreciate having feedback from someone who knows!!
Linda
Travi
I'm glad you're not accepting the one year deadline -- gosh, what an inappropriate word!
I appreciate your feedback!
Thank you!
Linda
Gosh, I could have written your post.
Northkountry
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