Dealing with a passing

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-16-2008
Dealing with a passing
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Tue, 09-16-2008 - 6:48pm

I am trying to deal with the passing of my mother. It has been a long time, seven years now, but I just can't seem to fully deal with it. I had to keep the family together after she passed and have put on a brave front but I feel like my life is on hold from not dealing with it properly.

Any suggestions, tips, comfort?

It is all appreciated.

M

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Registered: 04-30-2000
Wed, 09-17-2008 - 8:48am

I lost my mom almost 9 years ago. Wow!

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iVillage Member
Registered: 09-16-2008
Thu, 09-18-2008 - 6:12am

Thank you so much for taking the time to reply!

My mother also got into angels when she was going through her many treatments. I have a few of them a little here and there. I really like the candle idea, I have a bottle of her old perfume but a candle would be much easier to light :)

I am going to look into those links you sent me.

Thank you again!

Michaela

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-27-2008
Sat, 09-27-2008 - 9:07pm

I am dealing with the passing of my daughter. It will be a year this November the 14th. I know the hurt and pain that you are going thru. cancer is such a terrible thing to see a loved one go through.

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Registered: 04-04-2005
Mon, 09-29-2008 - 3:25pm

I can't imagine losing a child.


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