dealing with a breakup and cancer
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dealing with a breakup and cancer
| Sun, 10-19-2008 - 11:58pm |
Hi I just need to get someone else view on my life. My exboyfriend found out he had colon cancer 7 years ago. They cured that one. Then he got another cancer supposedly a different kind on his peritineum he has been on oral chemo for 5 years for that and it has never really went away. I broke up with him 3 months ago because he was such a jerk. I feel really bad and I don't know why. He was so hurtful and seemed so uncaring. He would do things that he had to know hurt me. I would tell him that they were hurtful. A friend of ours invited him over for dinner on fourth of july mind you she is a woman. She wanted to thank him for helping her move some heavy furniture. I had invited him to my house earlier in the day and he turned my invitation down saying he was going to his dad's that he would come over after he left there I said that was fine. Then he calls me back and tells me that she invited him to her house and that he was going! On 4th of July. What the heck was she thinking. I said she hasn't called me and invited me? He says oh she probably will. I was so upset and he new it but must not of cared right? She never did call me. And he never came over that night either. So the next day I call him and tell him that we are over. He says Ok Bye and nothing else. So we haven't talked to each other since. And I see him at work all of the time.Which makes it harder. Until this last week.He hasnt been there. I find out that his cancer is back in another place. His spine! I feel like s__t. One of the people he works with wanted to send him a thinking of you note. And ask me if I wanted to sign it. I told her I didn't really know what to write but that I would. He called me today to say that he got it yesterday. and thanks for thinking of him. We talked for an hour. Never about us breaking up. I feel so sad. I don't know what do! I don't really want to deal with it again but I feel like I should be there for him even though he is such an ass. Does anyone have any advice for me. My family would be so mad at me if I went back. We were broke up 2 years ago for the same sort of thing. He is so stubborn. And they would be so mad because I vented to them so many things that made me mad and upset. They think he is a big jerk.

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