Update: Me and FOB
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|Tue, 01-06-2004 - 5:40pm|
Anyways, onto my update. Since I last posted he has started to take some iniative with our daughter. He'll usually change at least one diaper a day and give her one of her bottles. If he doesn't give her a bottle then, he'll makea few for me to give her. Not huge improvements, but at least he's started to do something. He still won't hold her just to cuddle with her or play with her, but I'm hoping that he eventually will.
He and I are fighting less, and have started sleeping in the same room again. I no longer have to ask him for a hug or kiss, he gives those freely on his own now. But he still won't say "I love you" w/o me saying it first. So there are still somethings that I really miss and I'm hoping that he's starting to come around and become once again the person I knew and fell in love with over 3 years ago. We still haven't rescheduled the wedding, but I'm waiting on that until I know for sure everything will be okay.
Just wanted to bring you up-to-date as my trip to NY w/ him to see our families and show off our little one is next week, and I am planning on coming home w/ him. So, that's definitely a plus, as I had intended to stay there w/ our daughter if things hadn't improved.
Thank you again for all your support and positive thoughts. And keep sending them my way! And congratulations to all the new moms-to-be who've posted and welcome all the new first time moms!
-Becky and Ilene