DH unemployed again
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|Sun, 01-04-2009 - 7:18pm|
We haven't financially recovered from the last one yet....and DH was let go from his current job.
I have no idea if he'll qualify for any unemployment this time, and I just don't have it in me right now to be sympathetic so I'm trying for the "if you can't say anything nice don't say anything"
Last time I was all "we'll get through it, it will be ok" blah, blah.....and as unsupportive and mean as it sounds right now....I'm angry and feel like he really let me down and I'm resentful that once again I'm going to be the only one giving a rat's rear end if we stay afloat, I'm going to be the one watching the bills and trying to spend as little as possible, I'm going to be the one figuring out what is a priority and what can wait, and I don't have an "escape" like playing WoW when I don't feel like dealing with it...(and that's another source of resentment rearing it's ugly head right now)
happily married since 2003...a blended family with 4 kids, 1 grandchild and second grandbaby due in September