Are there any young ladies in here?

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Are there any young ladies in here?
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Tue, 10-09-2007 - 8:58am

I don't mean to come off mean or insensitive for the older ladies because I am looking for anybody that understands at this point. I was just wondering if anyone younger got the crap about "You're so young" "It will happen when it's supposed to" "don't stress over it" yada yada yada. I think if you have been ttc and have not a healthy young age (I'm 21 & DH is 26) when there doesn't seem to be any explanations of why you shouldn't be conceiving, then you'd be freaking out too hehe

Here's a little back info about me:
We have been on Clomid for 3 months (getting ready to start 2 more doses beginning next CD). DH took a SA and he was fine. We also just did a HSG and that came back fine. I have been using OPTs so I know I'm O'ing. Although I'm not start AF naturally, which I am concerned about but RE doesn't seem to be. We just don't know what the problem is.

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Tue, 10-09-2007 - 11:20am

mpotter,


I am currently 33 (until next Tues) anyway. We got married when I was 21 and DH was 27 and have been ttc since then so I can understand where your coming from. In the beginning people would say, your so young..... why do you want to get pg now you just got married etc. Now they say when are you gonna have a baby????Your're not getting any younger. You can't win for losing sometimes.


It took a couple years for the docs to figure out exactly what was going on with me and why we weren't getting pg. Hopefully it won't take you that long. Good Luck!

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Tue, 10-09-2007 - 2:04pm

Amanda,

I can't believe the hell you must have be going through. :( But you are right, sometimes you can't win from losing. People are just so insensitive sometimes. I hope that I never come off to someone else that way.

Mary

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Tue, 10-09-2007 - 2:08pm
Yes I am 22 and my husband and I started trying righ twhen we got married pretty much at 19! well he was 23...But yeah people get on to me all the time I say exactly I am young i am not supposed to be having these problems! It makes me so mad! So i feel where you are coming from!

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Wed, 10-10-2007 - 7:05am

Hi there


I know exactly how you feel.
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Wed, 10-10-2007 - 8:00am

Lotsoflove,

We'll have to hang in there together and continue to ignore people's insensitivity together.

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Wed, 10-10-2007 - 8:02am

Disshearted,

I cannot imagine how hard it must be to loose a child :( I hope that I never have to experience that, but I hope soon that it will work out for you.

The last part of your post was so funny. HAHA I'll have to remember the 14 muscles because I want to use them all the time towards people LOL

Mary

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Wed, 10-10-2007 - 8:35am

Mary,


I am glad you enjoyed it.

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Thu, 10-11-2007 - 7:32pm

HI


I am 25.

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Fri, 10-12-2007 - 1:36am
I am 22, my husband is 23, weve been trying for 2 years... i get that your to young wait awhile crap all the time! When i first started getting curious and thinking oh theres something wrong with me, everyone said it was in my head im just young, but there was something wrong, ive had surgery and im on fertility medicine!
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Sat, 10-13-2007 - 10:01am

(((mpotter87)))


I'm so sorry to hear of your IF issues.

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