scared and confused

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Registered: 10-29-2007
scared and confused
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Tue, 10-30-2007 - 12:25am
hey all I am new to the form, I have been married for 10 years and we have been trying to get pregnant for about all that time, we started fertility treatments about 4 years ago but had to do it on and off because of finances now we are here at our second IUI, I took the p/g test this morning and it was negative,(I am 3 days late) needless to say very sad, my niece is on her second baby, and it seems everyone gets pregnant around me, I guess what I need is prayer and someone to just listen I love my family and friends to death but if they tell me one more time "don't worry " "relax" "in time" and all that well indented junk I will literately scream, okay now I am just babbling I just have all this raw emotion,
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Registered: 03-24-2006
Tue, 10-30-2007 - 4:20pm

I just wanted to pop in say Hi & Welcome to the board.

 

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Registered: 09-11-2006
Wed, 10-31-2007 - 8:09am

(((miame 24)))


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Hello and Welcome,


I'm so sorry to hear about your BFN.

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Registered: 08-10-2007
Wed, 10-31-2007 - 11:12am

Hi, I'm so sorry about your BFN and about everything you're going through. It is so frustrating to watch everyone getting pregnant around me after we have been trying for so much longer than they have. I try to talk to people who will understand (like my MIL who struggled with infertility for 4 years before getting pregnant) and not as much to people who don't (like my parents, who conceived both of their children on their first month off BCP!). And it helps to talk to a therapist too. Mine has really helped me take all that "raw emotion" and turn it into feelings I can work with. Good luck and I hope things work out for you soon.

Reba


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Registered: 09-27-2007
Sat, 11-03-2007 - 10:55pm

Hi, I'll just reiterate what everyone has said before me.