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Registered: 03-17-2008
stress
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Tue, 08-19-2008 - 10:26am

okay, so  my impatience got the best of me and I POAS on Sunday (knew it was too early but thought, what the heck and obviously it was bfn).  I POAS again today and guess what... bfn.  I am afraid that we are not preggers and am totally bummed!  I don't even want to do the beta on Thursday.


I thought that I would be okay if I wasn't, I have made plans for myself if it was bfn... but now just thinking that it is probably bfn has me totally depressed, stressed and sad.    

        


 

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Registered: 08-05-2008
In reply to: bbonthebrain
Tue, 08-19-2008 - 11:26am

I'm so sorry to hear about your BFN. ((HUGS)) go to you, I know how sometimes when you're convinced it's BFP it's easy to say "well even if it's not, I'll be ok" and then it's a BFN and you're more bummed than you promised yourself you would be. I think personally, I've done that about a skillion times. I try to think (tons of cheesiness coming your way) that for every bummer about BFN or AF, it adds another

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Registered: 03-17-2008
In reply to: bbonthebrain
Tue, 08-19-2008 - 12:46pm
thanks for the support!

        

 
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Registered: 08-10-2008
In reply to: bbonthebrain
Tue, 08-19-2008 - 1:09pm
Hi Melinda - I'm so sorry about your BFN.
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Registered: 01-07-2008
In reply to: bbonthebrain
Tue, 08-19-2008 - 2:42pm
Sorry POAS hasn't given you the news you were looking forward to.

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Registered: 03-11-2008
In reply to: bbonthebrain
Tue, 08-19-2008 - 7:26pm
Everyone is right, you don't know for sure until the beta confirms. I was positive on a beta and negative on the sticks - it was a chemical pregnancy. It sucked, but it made me feel like at least I can fertilize, and that hopefully soon I'll succeed all the way. So hang in there until your beta. I KNOW it's going to suck if the BFN is confirmed, I totally know. I get depressed every month there is a bfn. I'm here for you if you need to talk, please know that.

TTC a little over a year; Dx: Suspected hormonal imbalance, short luteal phase. But mostly unexplained. DH is normal. IUI #1 with 100mg Clomid, progesterone suppositories
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Registered: 05-20-2008
In reply to: bbonthebrain
Tue, 08-19-2008 - 9:03pm
(((HUGS))) this can be sooo frustrating, all hope is not lost I know of many people who had BFN on POAS and then had positive betas.
  

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Registered: 03-17-2008
In reply to: bbonthebrain
Wed, 08-20-2008 - 11:54am

Thank you to everyone for all of the wonderful support!