now i'm very depressed

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Registered: 09-11-2008
now i'm very depressed
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Thu, 09-25-2008 - 5:34pm
How is this for irony. My niece who was told she could never have a baby had was scheduled to have a histerectomy (because of many female problems) just found out she is pregnant. I am so happy for her, she is practically my own daughter, but it hurts. But it is also a good story for miracles. She has massive scar tissue and has been told by six doctors she will NEVER have a baby. So girls, miracles do happen. My sister didn't want to tell me but she wanted me to know miracles can happen. So keep your hopes up. But now I'm going to go cry for awhile.
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Registered: 09-11-2008
Thu, 09-25-2008 - 5:50pm
And then I found out this nieces brother is having another baby too.
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Registered: 01-08-2008
Thu, 09-25-2008 - 6:54pm
it's nice to hear a story of someone totally beating the odds, but on the other hand it feels like everyone, even someone who dr's said couldn't do it, can get pg. it's ok to feel sad.

ana


TTC since Sept '06
Diagnosed w/ PCOS, DH diagnosed with azoospermia Dec '06, TESA Mar '07
IVF/ICSI/AZH#1 Aug'07, BFN (6 usable eggs, 5 embies, 2 transferred, 1st beta=18, 2nd beta=12, 0 made it to blast to freeze)
IVF/ICSI#2:retrieval Nov'07, FET sched Jan'08, no embryos to transfer (23 usable eggs, 12 embies, 0 made it to transfer)
IVF/ICSI#3: retrieval Mar'08, FET May'08, BFN (13 usable eggs, 7 fertilized w/ DH sperm= 0 blasts, 6 fertlized w/ DS=3 blasts, all 3 transferred, 1st beta=74, 2nd beta=64, 3rd beta=42)
1st cycle IUI/clomid/donor sperm postponed due to lack of follicular growth on 100mg clomidx5days.

ana

mom to beautiful baby lia.
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Registered: 11-04-2006
Thu, 09-25-2008 - 7:06pm
Like Ana said, it is nice to hear stories about beating the odds and doing what doctors said would never happen, but I would be sad also about this. When it rains, it pours huh? {{{HUGS}}}

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Registered: 08-03-2008
Thu, 09-25-2008 - 8:04pm

Oh that really stinks.

 

Me36, DH33, DS4, took us 5 years of misery(tons of blood work, tests, HSG, many clomid cycles & exploratory Laparoscopic with ovarian drill

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Registered: 06-22-2008
Thu, 09-25-2008 - 9:39pm
It's good to see there's light at the end of the tunnel even when the train is running us over!
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me 24/DH 24/together since 10-30-2000/married since 8-12-2006/TTC #1 since August 2007/Dx primary hypopituitarism (since childhood, generally low hormones incl. hypothyroid and pituitary dwarfism - though I'm 5'2" after meds),

Erin & Ryan Sig
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Registered: 09-11-2008
Thu, 09-25-2008 - 9:51pm
Oh my gosh you actually made me laugh in the middle of my crying. I feel stuck between a rock and a hard place with my feelings. It's like I'm so excited for her but it hurts and i'm happy for her but i hate her too (not really but you now). It gives me hope but at the same time I'm like I'm done and so tired of hearing that all these people around me are getting what I want. DH said that I need to take it as a good sign and I'm sure that by tomorrow, when I can put aside my sorrow, I will agree.
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Thu, 09-25-2008 - 10:42pm
(((HUGS)))
  

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Registered: 06-28-2008
Fri, 09-26-2008 - 12:11am
I agree with everyone, you need to look at this as a sign that IT CAN HAPPEN for you you!
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Registered: 06-22-2008
Fri, 09-26-2008 - 6:33pm
:D I'm always happy to bring a laugh just when you need it most. That seems to be my default role on this board. Perhaps I should change my user ID to "court_jester."
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me 24/DH 24/together since 10-30-2000/married since 8-12-2006/TTC #1 since August 2007/Dx primary hypopituitarism (since childhood, generally low hormones incl. hypothyroid and pituitary dwarfism - though I'm 5'2" after meds),

Erin & Ryan Sig
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Sun, 09-28-2008 - 5:54pm
Yes you should. I need a jester now because my hopes are so low i don't know what to do. I've had 5 people in my family this year either have or are expecting a baby. So thank you for helping me have some good times.
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