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Registered: 09-11-2008
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Sat, 10-04-2008 - 8:58pm
This has been a bad weekend for me. Me and DH have been fighting so bad that for a couple of days I didn't even check my temp and started thinking if this was ever going to work. And now I'm in such a funk I don't know what to do. All I can do right now is cry. What makes it even worse is this was the time I am Oing, hopefully the one time we BDed will be enough. Thanks for listening.
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Registered: 10-02-2008
Sat, 10-04-2008 - 9:23pm

*hugs* fighting with DH when you're supposed to BD is so rough. I went through that same thing last cycle. But hey, it only takes once, right?


I hope things will start looking up for you soon.

Erin & Ryan Sig


me 24/DH 24/together since 10-30-2000/married since 8-12-2006/TTC #1 since August 2007/Dx primary hypopituitarism (since childhood, generally low hormones incl. hypothyroid and pituitary dwarfism - though I'm 5'2" after meds),

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Sat, 10-04-2008 - 10:00pm
Thanks Erin and again I am so happy for your BFP!!!! It seems like the last three weeks have been really rough for me, last time dh was home we fought, last week was the big double pg announcement from my sister and then this week we fought again. I think the IF is getting to us and as much as I want to take a break I'm not sure I really have the time with my age and all. Maybe I'll finish this month take a break next month and go on my cruise and then pick it up again in Dec or Jan. Please keep me posted on the preg.
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Sat, 10-04-2008 - 10:27pm

((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))

  

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Sat, 10-04-2008 - 10:33pm
Thanks Susan. I can always count on this board, and my furbaby who has been plastered to my side for two days now.
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Sat, 10-04-2008 - 11:34pm
((((((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))
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Sat, 10-04-2008 - 11:52pm
No DH on this cruise, just me and mom. Maybe a good thing as we will get a good break from each other. one where we can't even really talk to each other. Too bad i'll be Oing while gone or it would be some really good bding that could result in a BFP.
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Registered: 05-19-2008
Sun, 10-05-2008 - 8:51am
awww ((hugs)) I'm sorry things are so crappy. Whenever DH and I have an argument, I'm always like, "this better blow over before BD time!" Everything will work out, I promise :)


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Registered: 01-08-2008
Sun, 10-05-2008 - 5:05pm
hi there,
i'm so sorry that things have been so hard. the stress of IF is too much to be believed. i know it feels like it's never going to happen, but we all have some hope, somewhere inside us. please know we're all here and understand.

ana


TTC since Sept '06
Diagnosed w/ PCOS, DH diagnosed with azoospermia Dec '06, TESA Mar '07
IVF/ICSI/AZH#1 Aug'07, BFN (6 usable eggs, 5 embies, 2 transferred, 1st beta=18, 2nd beta=12, 0 made it to blast to freeze)
IVF/ICSI#2:retrieval Nov'07, FET sched Jan'08, no embryos to transfer (23 usable eggs, 12 embies, 0 made it to transfer)
IVF/ICSI#3: retrieval Mar'08, FET May'08, BFN (13 usable eggs, 7 fertilized w/ DH sperm= 0 blasts, 6 fertlized w/ DS=3 blasts, all 3 transferred, 1st beta=74, 2nd beta=64, 3rd beta=42)
1st cycle IUI/clomid/donor sperm postponed due to lack of follicular growth on 100mg clomidx5days.

ana

mom to beautiful baby lia.
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Registered: 09-11-2008
Sun, 10-05-2008 - 5:34pm
Thanks. Course it didn't help we fought again last night. It seems as though our bad times may never end but we're going to try and salvage the rest of his time home. Let's hope we don't have a repeat tonight.
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Sun, 10-05-2008 - 5:56pm
(Hugs!!!)

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