Seriously??!!!

emmyaz

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Registered: 03-04-2004

Seriously??!!!

7	Sat, 11-08-2008 - 2:45pm

I really really think this was our 'why us' day:/ DH and I went shopping off post and he ran into one of the Soldiers in his Battery. The guy and his wife were both smoking away...and she is 6 months pregnant!! Oh and they just got married, he apparently had an 'oops' moment and got this girl pregnant who he met at a club. Wonderful.

I know that we are happy and we usually have a very positive outlook..but sometimes I see these young soldiers getting BFP's and they don't even care, it drives me nuts.

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ana_2008

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Registered: 01-08-2008

In reply to: emmyaz

Seriously??!!!

Sat, 11-08-2008 - 3:52pm

hi emily,

(((hugs))) it's so unfair that totally irresponsible women get to be pg, while those of us doing everything in our power to get pg cannot.

ana

TTC since Sept '06. Diagnosed w/ PCOS, DH diagnosed with azoospermia Dec '06, TESA Mar '07
IVF/ICSI/AZH#1 Aug'07, BFN (6 usable eggs, 5 embies, 2 transferred, 1st beta=18, 2nd beta=12, 0 made it to blast to freeze)
IVF/ICSI#2:retrieval Nov'07 (w/ fresh TESA), FET sched Jan'08, no embryos to transfer (23 usable eggs, 12 embies, 0 made it to transfer)
IVF/ICSI#3: retrieval Mar'08, FET May'08, BFN (13 usable eggs, 7 fertilized w/ DH sperm= 0 blasts, 6 fertlized w/ DS=3 blasts, all 3 transferred, 1st beta=74, 2nd beta=64, 3rd beta=42)
1st cycle IUI/clomid/donor sperm postponed due to lack of follicular growth on 100mg clomidx5days.

ana

mom to beautiful baby lia.

kristylee105

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Registered: 05-19-2008

In reply to: emmyaz

Seriously??!!!

Sat, 11-08-2008 - 4:22pm

There's a girl like that that I teach. She's not really a "girl", she's actually a year older than me, but she's not married, not with the father, was an oops baby. But she still smokes and it makes me nuts. I know it's not my place to say something, but I always want to yank the cigarette out of her hand.