Really, your gonna be that person.....

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Registered: 06-12-2008
Really, your gonna be that person.....
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Mon, 12-22-2008 - 4:15pm

I am so mad right now.....and ladies please tell me if you think I'm over reacting!!!


One of my close friends....who is very much aware of the problems we have been having TTC and how long we have been trying.....thinks it's a good idea to send me an xmas card that says "do you see what I see" and has 4 stockings hanging on the mantle....one of them being a little baby stocking.....really so she thought this was the appropriate way to tell me that she is once again knocked up.....really fricken nice......I'm tempted to give her a piece of my mind and tell her how insensitive that was....I'm just so annoyed!!!

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Jeanne (30) DH (32) TTC our first since Sept. 2006....MFI DH's has zero motility....low testosterone....DH is currently on Clomid trying to increase his testosterone and in turn hopefully increase his motility!

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Registered: 09-11-2008
Mon, 12-22-2008 - 4:29pm

I may be over reacting too but that would piss me off. I would probably throw it away so I wouldn't have to look at it. ( ( ( ( H U G S ) ) ) ) I'm getting exhausted with all the people who can, POOF, be PG.

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Registered: 10-31-2008
Mon, 12-22-2008 - 4:34pm
Really that is how she tells you she is pgs again!

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Registered: 06-12-2008
Mon, 12-22-2008 - 4:35pm
Suzi....I'm so upset....it was just so insensitive of her.
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Registered: 06-12-2008
Mon, 12-22-2008 - 4:40pm
Yea she is a close friend...I can't believe she thought this would be the way to tell me....The card is cute, and it is a cute idea....but why would you send it to your friend whom you know has been ttc for over 2 yrs...it's just rude.....The best part of all this is.....she lost her house a few months ago, her DH lost his job 2 weeks ago, and her other daughter has down syndrome....it's mild, but still....I wasn't even expecting this from her, I mean it just doesn't seem like a good time for her to get PG....I just want to scream!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Registered: 10-31-2008
Mon, 12-22-2008 - 4:56pm
Scream away!

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Registered: 06-12-2008
Mon, 12-22-2008 - 4:59pm

Thank you Terri.....I just love you ladies you always know what I'm feeling and how to calm me down.....


You guys are the best!

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Registered: 10-31-2008
Mon, 12-22-2008 - 5:04pm
Oh good for DH.

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Registered: 09-11-2008
Mon, 12-22-2008 - 6:09pm

( ( ( ( H U G S ) ) ) ) Here's more hugs. Good for your DH. I'm sorry you're so upset. I'm here for you if you need someone to vent to. We all are. It always makes me feel good when I can help someone on this board.

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Registered: 05-20-2008
Mon, 12-22-2008 - 6:30pm
(((HUGS))) Jeanne I would not be happy if a friend did that to me either.
  

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Registered: 01-04-2007
Mon, 12-22-2008 - 8:34pm

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