PG people at work

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Registered: 12-09-2008
PG people at work
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Tue, 03-24-2009 - 11:17pm

Do you ever just hate going to work to face those people that have no idea how luck they are.  So in the past 2 weeks I have found out not 1 but 2 people in my office are pregnant and neither were planned nor are they really wanted.  One girl got pregant during make up sex-nice huh she has two kids by two different relationships and they are both older.  She was not wearing her wedding ring for quite awhile and boom she is pregnant- I seriously wonder if it is husbands.  Then the other person has a 17 yo just finalized her 2nd divorce in the fall just broke up with her boyfriend and gets knocked up.  Ok seriously do I have to be a tramp or in a bad realtionship to get pregnant.  I do not get it and it kills me seeing them knowing they do not even want to be pregnant.  UGH


Then to top it off one close manager at work had her baby 4 weeks early and we were to be due several weeks apart and I am taking her dinner tomorrow and I know it will break my heart seeing the baby. 

Deanna


TTC #2, 3 m/c prior to successful birth 2002. Multi cycles w/ Clomid no success, clomid with IUI 10/2007 m/c 12/2007.  Injectible with IUI 8/2008 m/c 10/2008.  Clotting facor, no regular ovulation and DH low count. 

Deanna

TTC #2, 3 m/c prior to successful birth 2002. Multi cycles w/ Clomid no success, clomid with IUI 10/2007 m/c 12/2007.  Injectible with IUI 8/2008 m/c 10/2008.  Clotting facor, no regular ovulation and DH low count. 

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Registered: 03-07-2009
Wed, 03-25-2009 - 12:05am

Deanna,
I completely understand how you feel! IF is one of the most frustrating and heartbreaking experiences of my life. I'm sorry you have had to deal with this at work. it really is annoying seeing people get pregnant who could really care less. I had dinner with a friend this weekend who got pregnant by her BF and was so distraught she cried for four months and couldn't tell anyone. I wonder, "Why her? She didn't even want it!" And here I've been trying for so long, and NOTHING!!! I'm seriously considering buying some drugs, getting drunk, and then doing it in the back seat of my car... It seems to work for some!

I hope you feel better soon!

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Registered: 01-31-2008
Wed, 03-25-2009 - 9:15am

Hugs Deanna!

Fortunately all of the pg women at my work have given birth and left so I don't have to see belly rubbing at the moment. But it would be especially annoying in your situation where they were both unplanned and the parents don't seem capable of taking care of themselves.

Good luck with your dinner tonight. I'm sure that will be very hard.

Kelly


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Registered: 10-31-2008
Wed, 03-25-2009 - 9:19am

Hi Deanna,


I know how you feel.

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Registered: 10-27-2007
Wed, 03-25-2009 - 11:56am

It worked for my friend. She has sex with her DH maybe 2x a year if he's lucky

Karen S


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Registered: 03-22-2009
Wed, 03-25-2009 - 1:45pm

That stinks!!!

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Registered: 02-11-2008
Wed, 03-25-2009 - 5:35pm
(((HUGS))) Deanna.

Isabel
Mom to Sebastian Robert after 3+ years of infertility

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Wed, 03-25-2009 - 8:07pm

I completely understand!

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Registered: 12-09-2008
Wed, 03-25-2009 - 10:09pm
Thanks to everyone for letting me vent.

Deanna

TTC #2, 3 m/c prior to successful birth 2002. Multi cycles w/ Clomid no success, clomid with IUI 10/2007 m/c 12/2007.  Injectible with IUI 8/2008 m/c 10/2008.  Clotting facor, no regular ovulation and DH low count.