always the god parent....
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|Fri, 04-17-2009 - 9:42am|
So SIL calls yesterday to ask DH to be the god father of our newest nephew (this is now 3 god children appeice for us). While we are thrilled that we are asked, it is heartbreaking too that we can't be a parent ourselves.
Really what is bugging me about this is that SIL didn't even say Happy Birthday to me when I answered the phone. Since her first child 2 years ago it has been all about her and the kids.... We use to be really good friends. taking turns every month or so visiting the other. Now they have a child (well 2) and they can't make a trip to see us. They haven't been up here since she got pgs. We are always expected to be a the birthday parties and what not. And we are not allowed to bring the dog. BS that is my child! At least this time we were given more than one week notice on when the baptism (or any event) is. I feel obligated to go, but I am not sure I want to. The baptism is in 3 weeks.
"Keep your face to the sunshine and you cannot see the shadows" - Helen Keller
DH (34) and me (33). Been together since March 1994, Married in September 1999. TTC since November 2001.
DX: Graves Disease->hypothyroidism and functional ovarian cysts or unexplained ovarian dystfunction. BW: CD3 FSH 9.8, LH 3.4, estradial <10. CD21 Progesterone: 9.9. DH DX: can seed an army. Last SA was 70mil/mL with 60% motility.
Rx: Femara/ovidrel/IUI, Acupuncture, TCM fertility diet and soon Reiki.
Suppliments: prenatals, EPO, baby asprin, fish oil
Currently: Yes! I am finally cyst free. IUI cancelled due to disappearing follies.