I know I am handling this wrong but....
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|Tue, 04-21-2009 - 9:06am|
***pregnancy mentions (not me though)***
I have been meaning to share this with you all but I am a little embarressed with myself. So I have this co-worker who is about 4 months preggers now. About a month ago I discovered this by looking at her facebook page. Most of the people if not all know that we have been going through fertility treatments. This co-worker and used to get along too. Honestly, I have no idea why we stopped talking but we just did. I will admitt that I have withdrawn myself due to my emotion this year.
Let me get to what is annoying me first of all I am annoyed that she didn't tell me personally. Is that to much to ask for? Second I do morning announcements at my job and she normally has stuff to say also. So last week twice people who know about my IF start asking her questions about how pregnant she is and baby shower stuff. Both times I had enough time to walk away and come back before I had to start. I am just annoyed.
I really don't want to make a big deal out of it because she is being transfered away at the end of this year. I am thinking I am just going to suck it up for the next month and a half. People just need to take sensitivity classes and be aware of the people around them.
What would you do?
TTC TTC #1 since June 2006, Me 28 & DH 30, IVF #1 ICSI and AH ~ BFN, IVF #2 Jan ICSI and AH ~ BFN, Just reserved our donor for our DE IVF, DX ~ pre-POF also known as POI, TTC w/ the assitance of Traditional Chinese Medicine.
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