SERIOUSLY????

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Registered: 04-05-2009
SERIOUSLY????
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Thu, 04-23-2009 - 3:57pm

OMG, I seriously have to wonder about people.


My sister just called to ask me if I would watch her kids longer b/c she wanted to go to the tanning bed.  THE TANNING BED.


I'm beginning to wonder what is wrong with ME, my best friend smokes and drinks during her pregnancy occasionally and my sister thinks it okay to go to the flippin tanning bed during hers.


I'm just about to have a freakin aneurism.


 


 

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Faith (34) Matt (39) TTC since 1996!! It's a lot to outline, but the bottom line now is I have no fallopian tubes due to ectopics...only option is IVF.  Have had 1 fresh, 2 frozen IVF's fail. In limbo now until I feel I am healthy and will make a plan after DR appt on May 5. :)


 


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Registered: 01-31-2008
In reply to: purkyfaith
Thu, 04-23-2009 - 4:17pm

Un-freaking-believable!

What did you say???

Kelly


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Registered: 04-05-2009
In reply to: purkyfaith
Thu, 04-23-2009 - 4:28pm

I was like "the tanning bed??? uh, you're pg"


mind you, this isn't the first time she's gone, so I've said this before.


But she swears up and down that there is not conclusive evidence that anything will happen to your fetus .


HMMM, wonder why that is? Maybe b/c there aren't any PG women willing to lie in tanning beds to see how long it takes to cook their unborn child???

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Faith (35) Matt (40)

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Registered: 01-31-2008
In reply to: purkyfaith
Thu, 04-23-2009 - 4:34pm
It just amazes me that anyone would be willing to risk that because it hasn't been proven to be bad for a fetus. I think you got all the brains in the family too. And the common sense.

Kelly


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Registered: 01-13-2009
In reply to: purkyfaith
Thu, 04-23-2009 - 5:24pm

Hey Faith,


I hesitate to say this, and I'm sorry because I'm so on your side about your sister being a complete nut job.

After struggling with infertility, we welcomed our son Noah on March 18, 2010! Formerly a teacher, I am now a breastfeeding, babywearing, stay at home Mom, and I couldn't love it any more!
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Registered: 02-11-2008
In reply to: purkyfaith
Thu, 04-23-2009 - 5:54pm
That's it...you and your older sister got all the sense in the family.

Isabel
Mom to Sebastian Robert after 3+ years of infertility

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Registered: 04-05-2009
In reply to: purkyfaith
Thu, 04-23-2009 - 6:20pm

She's in her first trimester and she isn't taking prenatals to my knowledge. Says she doesn't have the money for them.


I'm sure its prolly fine to go, but why would you? Twice a week.


I'm just extremely tired of PG people taking for granted

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Faith (35) Matt (40)

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Registered: 03-11-2008
In reply to: purkyfaith
Thu, 04-23-2009 - 6:47pm
Like Izzy said, how about not wanting to get cancer so you can be around for your kid? And your BFF smoking totally kills me. People do take pregnancy and their babies for granted. GRRRRR. I hope your sis learns to put her children first - why have them otherwise.



AKA "Caro". 35 years old, Dh is 38; BFP in April 2009

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Registered: 07-29-2008
In reply to: purkyfaith
Thu, 04-23-2009 - 8:25pm

How ridiculous! But I hear similiar things from people and I about pass out too!


Hang in there! Good things are coming!!!


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Me-30, DH newly 34, diagnosed with PCOS in Nov/Dec 2008. 3 Failed cycles of Clomid. (50mg, 100mg, 150mg) Started working with RE Nov 26. Asked for & started M

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Registered: 01-13-2009
In reply to: purkyfaith
Thu, 04-23-2009 - 8:53pm

I'm with you.

After struggling with infertility, we welcomed our son Noah on March 18, 2010! Formerly a teacher, I am now a breastfeeding, babywearing, stay at home Mom, and I couldn't love it any more!
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Registered: 06-28-2008
In reply to: purkyfaith
Thu, 04-23-2009 - 8:57pm

OMG!

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