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|Tue, 05-26-2009 - 3:06pm|
DH and I just got back from the RE follow up appointment and I am so confused about what we should do...
the RE said that she would be hesitant to do another IVF is she were me b/c we only got three embies for IVF #1 (even with the max amount of meds). She said we could also try DE's but on the other hand, we may be able to get a few good eggs again. She said she would feel better if we were able to get five- which we might be able to get the 2nd time around... but no promises.
So now what??!?!? Do we try another IVF or go for DE's? Financially this is killing us and we are now looking at refinancing the house- DH really wants a biological child. I don't care where the baby comes from or what the baby looks like. I was hoping that the RE would say "No- don't do another IVF with your own eggs, use donor eggs" or "yes go ahead with your own eggs"...
I have been sitting at work just praying for God to help me make this choice-