this cycle= BFN

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this cycle= BFN
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Thu, 08-20-2009 - 7:12am

Well the old witch is on her way.

My temp went way down. below the coverline.

I expect her here tomorrow which only makes my luthal phase 11 days long.

I know she hasn't shown up yet and there is hope but I don't have any.

My sysmptoms have seemed to disappear too.

at this point. I think I am done trying. 8 months and all BFN. I don't think I could take another BFN.

So if you don't hear from me .. you know I have decided that enough is enough. I will just have to live with not being able to give my son a sibbling. And that My body is a BF Failure.

Thanks for your support. You are all a great bunch.

Good luck to those getting the BFP and those that are expecting.


Wendy 39yrs ~~ Kevin 43yrs
Joshua 5 1/2 yrs


*TTC since Jan.09...Diagnosis is PCOS
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Thu, 08-20-2009 - 8:25am
I'm so sorry Wendy:( I can understand the needing the break from all this stress. I hope everything turns out okay for you and your family.

 

Kelly

I'm 38, DH is 42 and we are TTC #1. We've had 3 unexplained miscarriages and a bout with Asherman's Syndrome but we're determined.

BFP #4! - 1/
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Thu, 08-20-2009 - 8:37am

Wendy I am so sorry that AF is on her way:(


I empathize with your situation in a big way because I am

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Thu, 08-20-2009 - 9:00am

Wendy


(((HUGGSS))) Im sorry the evil hag is on her way. I totally understand the stress.


Cynthia

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Thu, 08-20-2009 - 9:09am

Thanks ladies.

I really thing that my age is really playing a big roll in it.
38 almost 39.

It's going to be up to my husband.. I made the choices for the last 8 months .. he now can make this one. Because I know how uncomfortable he is about having to do it in a cup. IUI would be next for the next cycle. But this is totally up to him on this if we do a IUI or we just stop and be happy with our 5yr even though he will be disappointed he wont have a baby brother or sister.


Wendy 39yrs ~~ Kevin 43yrs
Joshua 5 1/2 yrs


*TTC since Jan.09...Diagnosis is PCOS
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Thu, 08-20-2009 - 10:20am
Wendy, I am so sorry!!!!

Melissa


About me ~ Me - 31, DH- 31, DH and I have been together since April 1

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Thu, 08-20-2009 - 10:31am
Sorry to hear about your Pending BFN.

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Thu, 08-20-2009 - 12:32pm
I'm sorry Wendy, **Hugs.**


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