Why is this bothering me so much?

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Why is this bothering me so much?
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Thu, 12-31-2009 - 9:25am

So I told you all about my BFF who is pg again (the one who made sure she told me that they tried for 4 months this time... awe poor thing) (also the one who started ttc when I did and is on her second successful pg)

Anywho, she posted some pics on Facebook and also sent out her Christmas pics and there were a few of her 15 month old daughter wearing a T-shirt that says "I have a secret" on the front and "I'm going to be a Big Sister" on the back. It has me so upset and frankly so jealous. I can't imagine being able to buy such a shirt or feeling confident enough to announce a pregnancy on facebook at 8 weeks. Honestly, I am having a really hard time being around her right now. I don't want to hear about her pg, it just really hurts. I know it is irrational and selfish of me but I just really wish I could avoid her and her perfect little life. She tries to complain to me about whatever and I just don't want to hear it. Like for instance, she is telling me last night how she is feeling fat because her clothes aren't fitting her. Um, no, you're not fat you're pg biotch, quit complaining!

okay, just needed to vent to people who understand. I can't tell DH this or he would think I was evil.

 
edited to say... I don't feel this way about any of the preggers here at all! I am overjoyed with the pg's here.

Kelly

I'm 37, DH is 41 and we are TTC #1. We've had 2 unexplained miscarriages and a bout with Asherman's Syndrome but we're determined.

IUI #1 = BFN

IUI #2 (Aug 09) = BFN

On to IVF - stims start Sept 14th!  IVF Canceled:( converted to IUI...

BFP!!!
13dpo - 65
15dpo - 128
19dpo - 495
23dpo - 1987
...another miscarriage
Sad and trying to decide what steps to take next.




Edited 12/31/2009 9:27 am ET by cl-lookingformy1st

 

Kelly

I'm 38, DH is 42 and we are TTC #1. We've had 3 unexplained miscarriages and a bout with Asherman's Syndrome but we're determined.

BFP #4! - 1/

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Registered: 06-28-2008
Sat, 01-02-2010 - 11:34pm
(((((HUGS))))) Kelly.
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Sun, 01-03-2010 - 7:37am
Thanks Jess! That is crazy that someone is out announcing her pg to people at 5 weeks. I don't blame you for walking away. I can imagine that if I ever do have a successful pregnancy I will probably still worry the entire time too. And then probably even more once the child is here!

 

Kelly

I'm 38, DH is 42 and we are TTC #1. We've had 3 unexplained miscarriages and a bout with Asherman's Syndrome but we're determined.

BFP #4! - 1/
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Registered: 01-03-2010
Sun, 01-03-2010 - 7:53pm

Hi ladies!


Sorry to butt in on your conversation... I totally understand the feeling.

~ Meron born 12-09-11 after 3 1/2 years of TTC, IUIs and IVF.
~ #2 on the way(!) and due 06-06-13.

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Registered: 01-07-2008
Mon, 01-04-2010 - 9:20am

HUGS my big sweetie!

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Registered: 07-30-2009
Mon, 01-04-2010 - 10:33am
Thanks, I think I may have to address it gently when I am in a state of mind where I can be calm and unemotional about it. I am worried about sounding selfish but I need to take care of myself in this matter.

 

Kelly

I'm 38, DH is 42 and we are TTC #1. We've had 3 unexplained miscarriages and a bout with Asherman's Syndrome but we're determined.

BFP #4! - 1/
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Registered: 01-07-2008
Mon, 01-04-2010 - 10:45am
Good luck and know we are always here for support.

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Registered: 11-07-2008
Mon, 01-04-2010 - 1:08pm

Ha, it sounds like our friends are two peas in a pod!


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