No change in U/S; D&C tomorrow
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| Tue, 03-23-2010 - 11:01am |
There was no heartbeat detected as well as no change in the growth. So, we decided to have a D&C tomorrow and close this chapter of the book as soon as possible. I will have my bloodwork drawn in about 2 weeks and they will run some tests on the 'baby' to see its chromosomes.
It still is very hard to pull myself away from the "happy pregnant thoughts" I had just a few weeks ago when I was thinking about the baby's room, names, wearing maternity clothes, etc. A very good friend of mine is pregnant (just 2 weeks ahead of where I would be) and her u/s yesterday came back perfect. I had visions of us with huge bellies pal-ing around ...... and it makes me sad that all those thoughts have gone away.
I truly believe that this is all part of God's plan....but it still hurts to go through.
Monica
Me: 37, DH: 41
TTC for 5 years . 1 Ectopic PG at 8 weeks; 2 IVF’s – (one BFP, ended in m/c at 8 weeks; one BFN); 4 IUI’s – all BFN. February 2010: IVF #3: BFP! First beta 267, second beta 3616, u/s on 3/16/10.
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Thanks for passing that on Grace.
I thought about emailing her, but I hate telling someone bad news.
Me: 39, DH: 43
TTC for 5 years . 1 Ectopic PG at 8 wee
Monica,
Faith was trying to respond to your post but couldn't since she's having problems getting on. I told her I would let you know that she's so sorry. It broke her heart to read the post and she's thinking of you. Lots of ((hugs))
Me (30), DH (30)
Monica,
I am truely sorry for your loss. I was holding hope that everything would turn out ok. Lots of (((hugs))) coming your way.
Me ~ 31 DH ~ 33 TTC #1 since August 2002. Dealing with mild Endo, PCOS, D
Monica:
So sorry. Praying for you!
Rachael
Rachael (25)
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~ Meron born 12-09-11 after 3 1/2 years of TTC, IUIs and IVF.
~ #2 on the way(!) and due 06-06-13.
I'm very sorry for you and your DH, Monica.
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Monica, I am so sorry!
I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope things go well tomorrow and the tests can shed some light on this and maybe take you one step closer to a safe and healthy pregnancy, which I hope comes very soon!
Ana
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