No change in U/S; D&C tomorrow

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No change in U/S; D&C tomorrow
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Tue, 03-23-2010 - 11:01am

There was no heartbeat detected as well as no change in the growth.  So, we decided to have a D&C tomorrow and close this chapter of the book as soon as possible.  I will have my bloodwork drawn in about 2 weeks and they will run some tests on the 'baby' to see its chromosomes.


It still is very hard to pull myself away from the "happy pregnant thoughts" I had just a few weeks ago when I was thinking about the baby's room, names, wearing maternity clothes, etc.  A very good friend of mine is pregnant (just 2 weeks ahead of where I would be) and her u/s yesterday came back perfect.  I had visions of us with huge bellies pal-ing around ...... and it makes me sad that all those thoughts have gone away.


I truly believe that this is all part of God's plan....but it still hurts to go through.


Monica


Me: 37, DH: 41


TTC for 5 years . 1 Ectopic PG at 8 weeks; 2 IVF’s – (one BFP, ended in m/c at 8 weeks; one BFN); 4 IUI’s – all BFN.  February 2010: IVF #3: BFP! First beta 267, second beta 3616, u/s on 3/16/10.



Me: 39, DH: 43


TTC for 5 years . 1 Ectopic PG at 8 wee

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Registered: 06-01-2009
Thu, 03-25-2010 - 11:00am

Thanks for passing that on Grace.


I thought about emailing her, but I hate telling someone bad news.


Me: 39, DH: 43


TTC for 5 years . 1 Ectopic PG at 8 wee

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Thu, 03-25-2010 - 10:46am


Monica,
Faith was trying to respond to your post but couldn't since she's having problems getting on. I told her I would let you know that she's so sorry. It broke her heart to read the post and she's thinking of you. Lots of ((hugs))

Me (30), DH (30)


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Wed, 03-24-2010 - 5:34pm
Oh I am so very sorry for your loss Monica.

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Wed, 03-24-2010 - 9:07am

Monica,


I am truely sorry for your loss. I was holding hope that everything would turn out ok. Lots of (((hugs))) coming your way.

Me ~ 31  DH ~ 33  TTC #1 since August 2002. Dealing with mild Endo, PCOS, D

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Wed, 03-24-2010 - 2:10am

Monica:


So sorry. Praying for you!


Rachael

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Tue, 03-23-2010 - 4:57pm
I'm so sorry

~ Meron born 12-09-11 after 3 1/2 years of TTC, IUIs and IVF.
~ #2 on the way(!) and due 06-06-13.

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Tue, 03-23-2010 - 2:39pm

I'm very sorry for you and your DH, Monica.

Lilypie Maternity tickers


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Tue, 03-23-2010 - 2:39pm
im very sorry this is how things ended up. i hope the best for you tomorrow and in the coming weeks to get through this.
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Tue, 03-23-2010 - 2:10pm

Monica, I am so sorry!

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Registered: 11-10-2008
Tue, 03-23-2010 - 1:15pm

I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope things go well tomorrow and the tests can shed some light on this and maybe take you one step closer to a safe and healthy pregnancy, which I hope comes very soon!


Ana

 


 


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