Starting IVF but my hubby is unsure
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|Thu, 05-29-2003 - 8:34pm|
3 years ago I had an ectopic pregnancy which has left me with many emotional scars and questions. I had to have one tube removed and the other is completely blocked. My doctor has tried to go in and "fix" my tube but my only option to conceive is IVF. I'm ready for it and I have saved money to do this but unfortunately my husband isn't sure of this procedure.
We both beleive in God but do not go to church regularily but all of a sudden this religious side of hubby has come out. He is convinced that God has something to do with this and that maybe this is how our life has been planned out. "If God wanted us to have children we wouldn't have lost our baby" is what hubby says. I don't think he sees this the same way I do. I will never be able to conceive the natural way, he is still able to!
How do I deal with a husband that may not want to go through IVF with me. Should I not push the topic on him and let the discussion rest or do I push and push and push until hopefully he gives in?