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| Wed, 05-05-2004 - 1:35pm |
Is there something wrong with me? I have never had an orgasm during sex. I just can't. The only way I can have one is through masturbation and that takes me at least 20 minutes. Last night I had a date with this guy and we had sex 3 times. Of course no orgasm for me. He says he feels inadequate even though I kept telling him it was me not him. Don't get me wrong I enjoyed it but I just couldn't get "there". Is this normal for some people or is there something wrong with me? Now I am afraid that he will stop calling me. I wouldn't blame him. I feel the need to add that I do have a quite extensive sexual abuse history. I really don't feel that that has anything to do with it though. Any ideas or suggestions? Please help!

Hi hon,
There is absolutely nothing abnormal going on...the majority of women don't have orgasms through intercourse.