How to do?

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Registered: 04-16-2004
How to do?
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Mon, 05-10-2004 - 8:35pm
Hello, so here I am again. Now me and my boyfriend tried to have sex (first time for both of us) but he couldn't get in. Why is that? What can we do? He was afraid I would bleed and it would hurt terribly but he kept pushing and nothing. Any advise?
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Registered: 03-25-2003
In reply to: martinikitty
Mon, 05-10-2004 - 10:08pm

Hi kitty!


Do you think it could be anxiety?

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Registered: 08-24-2003
In reply to: martinikitty
Tue, 05-18-2004 - 9:51pm
Hi MartiniKitty!

I was in the same situation 8 months ago. My boyfriend of 4 years and I started having sex and the first time it was a bit painful and there wasnt a lot of thrusting. It was more of a "get to know" party, lol. We were both very ready adn very arroused but he was afraid of hurting me and I was wondering if it would hurt and after a while it was ok, but there was a little bleeding, but thats normal. Ever since then its been fine, but as the saying goes practice makes perfect ;-) Good Luck!

Laura-20

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Registered: 04-16-2004
In reply to: martinikitty
Wed, 05-19-2004 - 7:03pm
Thank you Laura :) Actually we had sex last week. Yeah I bleed a little but it didn't hurt much. Also, like you said "Practice makes perfect". Thanks :)