Low sex drive....at 21?
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Low sex drive....at 21?
| Mon, 08-02-2004 - 9:57pm |
hey i was just wondering what everyone in sex land thought of this. im 19, my boyfriend will be 21 soon. we have sex one night a week max. this is considering we only hang out 2-3 times a week, and some of those times are spent in the company of friends so we don't have a chance to have sex. now i find i have a higher sex drive than him. i would like us to be slightly more intimate. i mean if you add it up then we're only having sex like 4-6 times a month! i dunno it seems a little low. i know people settle into a pattern after a while. that things slow down, but we've only been having sex for about 5 months, and its always been this same amount from the beginning. so basically im wondering if thats a normal sex drive for a 21 year old guy? i know couples that go at it like 5 times a week. my bf says that he's content with how things are now, but i can't help but feeling that having that kind of sex drive is low. am i just imagining things!?
Kelli
Kelli

It may be normal for him or perhaps not. Here are two links to information on male sexual dysfunction. See if any of the information seems to fit his situation. Male sexual dysfunction: http://www.ivillage.com/topics/health/0,,234376,00.html and Sexual Dysfunction: http://www.ivillagehealth.com/library/onemed/content/0,,241012_245704,00.html There are some people who just have a very low sex drive but perhaps there is a reason for his. If he will agree it might be a good idea for him to have a medical check-up to see if there is a physical reason for his low sex drive. Let us know how you and he are doing, ok?
Good luck,
Jill
Jill
Hugs,
Jill