oral pleasure = senation to Pee
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| Thu, 09-02-2004 - 3:38am |
The last couple years I have had to get up to go to the bathroom in the middle, to say the least, this is very disruptive to the love making process. My ex-husdand was familar with this issue, although frustrating for him, he was intimately familar with the progression of my senation to have to urinate during cunalingus more often as time went on.
I have ask my doctor about this a couple times and she had little or no advise on how to control it.
Lately, the senation is instantanious. As soon as my new boyfriend goes down to pleasure me, in spite having gone to the bathroom minutes before, the incredible need to run to the bathroom appears. It is incredibly uncomfortable and makes enjoying oral pleasure impossible. And it also interfering with my ability to orgasm since he is unable to stimulate me in that way to get me "fire up". My inability to oragasm is frustrating him to and repeadedly states that he is giving up. I know he is joking but fear there is also some seriousness in his tone.
Along with this most embarrassing situation, I now have the need to go during intercourse, which never happened before. Granted my new partner is significantly larger than my ex, I can't imagine that would be the issue. The only thing I can think of is that I have had a urinary infection of some sort for a couple years or a reoccuring infection.
Any opintions or first hand experience with this issue?
Are there any drugs that might cause this symptom?
I have never actually let out a significant amount of liquid, but I believe it will, if I don't find a couse and solution to this matter.
Any information would be greatly appreciated!
Thanks!
charrison1230

Have you been to a urologist about your problem? If not, you should and if the doctor you have already seen is an urologist I would get a second opinion from another urologist. Perhaps you have a bladder condition that doesn’t allow you to completely empty your bladder. Usually neither sex can urinate during sexual arousal as the acidity of the urine will kill sperm in semen. My first thought, when I saw the title of the discussion, was that you were experiencing female ejaculation, but – as I understand your post - the fact that you feel the need urinate almost immediately seems to me to rule that out. But we are all different, so perhaps it is. For more about female ejaculation see: http://www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/ejacula.htm If I were you I would definitely see a good urologist. Let us know what s/he says, ok?
Good luck,
Jill